02/04/2026
Recovery is rhythmic, not forceful.
Most people with persistent pain try to improve the same way theyâve succeeded in other parts of life: more effort, more intensity, more discipline.
That works for skill building.
It often fails for nervous system-driven pain.
Because the pain system is not trained by force.
It is trained by repeated signals of safety and predictability.
This is why I often see this pattern:
Someone has a âgood dayâ and does extra - longer walk, full workout, catches up on everything.
The next day they flare and assume they set themselves back.
Itâs not weakness.
Itâs a system that reads spikes in demand as threat and turns protection back up.
Research in pain neuroscience, central sensitization, and graded exposure shows that tolerance improves most reliably through gradual, repeatable, low-threat exposure, not intensity bursts.
In real life that looks like:
⢠stopping before overload instead of after
⢠repeating doable amounts instead of testing limits
⢠building routine before increasing challenge
⢠valuing steadiness over hero days
Force teaches the system to guard.
Rhythm teaches the system itâs safe.
If you want the step-by-step framework I use with clients to build this, start with the free guide and video linked in my bio.
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