22/11/2025
NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY!
ANYONE WHO ANNOYS YOU — is teaching you patience and calmness.
ANYONE WHO ABANDONS YOU — is teaching you how to stand on your own feet.
ANYONE WHO OFFENDS YOU — is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
ANYTHING YOU HATE — is teaching you unconditional love.
ANYTHING YOU FEAR — is teaching you courage and boldness.
ANYTHING YOU CANNOT CONTROL — is teaching you to let go and trust God.
ANY “NO” YOU RECEIVE FROM PEOPLE — is teaching you to be independent.
ANY PROBLEM YOU FACE — is teaching you how to find solutions.
ANY ATTACK YOU RECEIVE FROM PEOPLE — is teaching you the best form of defence.
ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU— is teaching you to look up to your Creator (GOD).
Always look for the lesson in every situation you face at every phase of life.
Be polite, calm, gentle, and thankful to God, because He will be with you till the end.
Life has taught me many lessons. I no longer rely on people at crossroads, because humans are not dependable.
I look to God alone the Author and Finisher of my faith.
If you go through life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing, or offending you, it means you never did anything significant.
The beauty of life is that it comes with betrayals and disappointments from people you least expect.
Unfortunately, many spend so much time crying over these hurts and end up becoming victims of the situation.
Remember this:
Holding on to anger is like hitting your head against a wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain.
You are only hurting yourself.
The world is full of annoying, immature, ungrateful, and difficult people. You will meet them at different points in life.
The best thing is to handle them with wisdom and maturity.
You cannot get everyone to love you, think like you, or behave like you never.
We must learn to tolerate and overlook certain things.
We must learn to bury the faults of others and move forward with life.
Anger, hatred, and intolerance have caused most of the world’s problems and solved none.
Life is short. You do not know how much time you have left.
I urge you:
Forgive that person you are holding a grudge against and settle the matter.
Gather the courage to apologise to the one you have offended.
Life is not measured by how much money, houses, or businesses you have, but by the positive impact you make in the lives of others.
NB: Be a blessing wherever you are.
