Choto CheMadzimai (2025)

16/09/2025

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09/07/2025

CHEATING WIFE: 20 Zimbabwean Women Confide Why They Are Cheating

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Each group ndaida vanhu more than 100 vekuita interview. Today I am bringing to you results from the first 20 Cheating Wives among a lot who have so far come through:

Cheating Wife 1
“ I cheat in order to make ends meet. Murume anouya nekamari kashoma mumba, he has been unlucky with jobs in Zim and paanowana pacho mari yacho haikwani transport chaiyo. Akangorega kukwira ZUPCO zve one week chete mumba yatove nzara. I am cheating with 4 boyfriends and zviri kubatsira”

To read what 18 others said please click link and read:

https://www.pridesibiya.com/2022/01/cheating-wife-20-zimbabwean-women.html

Cheating Wife 3
“I cheat because murume wangu ahadi kuudzwa zvaasiri kugonawo pabonde.Ndi Mr Know-It-All yet hapana chinozikamwa. Ukada kumuudza otopopota. So ndosvikepi iye munhu asingagoni...

09/07/2025

Hi Apostle…

Please post as anonymous..
My husband cheated few months back,, I'm failing to forgive him..

For now I'm working out on finding way of cheating back Kuti ndiwane closure,, I wanted to leave but akati ndisaende,, so I gave him a second chance but that comes with me cheating back

Apostle Pride Sibiya

09/07/2025

Haa Mrs kay nyaya dzebonde ma1 unoshaya woudza sei munhu seni i tried to talk nahubby bt seems munhu asingade zvekuudzwa...he doesnt like communication pas*x bt ini zvakundibowa he likes fi*****ng me apa marwadziro azvinoita even ndikazama kumubvisa anoramba achiita kudaro haa it hurts plus i tld him before k*t speed anonyanya woti warwadziswa nefi*****ng wotizve wen he penetrates anorova imwe speed isingaite paanopedza ndozopora mangwana va**na yangu inenge ichirwadza veduwe..i dnt kno k*t ndodii ini haaudzike n ukazama k*taura anoti ukundiita sek*t handizivi zvandoita😔...hide

Source: Mrs Kay's Kloset

09/07/2025

Love And Relationships: Recovering From A Cheating Partner

Having a cheating partner is one of the most hurtful things that could ever happen to someone who is in love; it is such an awful feeling. But what do you do after the cheating? How you handle it can have a big part in your recovery process.
Source : Temphas

https://www.pridesibiya.com/2019/03/love-and-relationships-recovering-from.html Love And Relationships: Recovering From A Cheating Partner

Cheating partner
Cheating usually revolves around a need for satisfaction. Whether it is a man or a woman, the person usually cheats to satisfy a need; s*xually, materially, emotionally etc. Although, there is rarely a simple answer to why a partner has been unfaithful, it could also be a symptom of other problems in your relationship/marriage or it could be something relating to your partner’s past. The following tips would help you cope with the aftermath of cheating, help you to heal and move on:

Accept your pain and embrace your feelings: You’re going to be shocked, confused, angry, and sad; you’re going to feel like you’re on a roller coaster of emotions for a long time. It takes time to recover from the pain of a cheating partner. Don’t expect that you’d completely move on and forget about the pain you felt, even if you’re trying to forgive your partner. Cheating is betrayal and a lot of pain comes from being betrayed from the person that you love the most.

Avoid Blaming yourself: You might be the worst person in the world, but it’s not an excuse for your partner to cheat. Blaming yourself would only make you feel helpless and bad about yourself. If your partner was unhappy, he/she should have talked about it with you.

Take time away from your partner: Spend time with family and friends. It’s usually advisable to either you or your partner moves out of the house for a bit. Being away from your cheating partner could help you decide what to do and how to handle the situation. Spending time with friends can help distract you from the situation for a bit, which in the end helps you to feel better.

Take Care of yourself: You may have some physical reaction to the situation such as sleeplessness, overeating, not eating, illness etc. Once the initial shock of the situation has passed, try not to get too carried away with yourself. Eat healthy, sleep properly, exercise, and do not overthink. It’s not as easy as it sounds, it’s a lot easier to let yourself go but you have to try very hard not to. Focus on positive self-talk every day.

Seek Counselling: Whether you’re planning to stay with your partner despite the cheating or you’re planning to leave, you should seek counselling. Don’t try to deal with the pain and sadness alone, speak to someone about it. It could be a friend or family member, it is more advisable if you seek professional help. An experienced therapist can help you communicate better and can help you deal with the pain better.

Take it One Day at time: Infidelity is one of the most difficult challenges in a relationship, but it doesn’t always mean it’s the end. As you work through the whole situation, it would become clear to you, what the next phase of your life is, whether it’ staying together or apart.

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09/07/2025

6 Reasons Why Married Women Cheat

Married women cheat because of the kind of company they keep.

Once a married woman starts following those ladies that are in marriage but in their mind they are still think they're single, she may start looking outside. With time, she would likely join the gang.
Bad company corrupts good character and no one is immune to influence.

Some wives will stay, "I know my friend cheats but I've warned her, I can't do that. Over my dead body". But with time, you'll see that her friend showcasing what she got from her escapades, or even share some of her graphic and well detailed story with her. Once the good wife's husband starts misbehaving she may be tempted to try it out, just once and she'll be hooked for life. Please breaks free from such friends. They'll tempt you not devil. Devil is on his own, chilling in hell, don't invite him to your home.

Once a wife start being unfaithful, that respect for her husband will start waning. She'll start having reasons to question his suitability to your needs. She'll now have something to compare him with. An observant husband will notice. Trust me we'll know. No matter how smart you think you are, you can never be the same. Something goes.

•Married women cheat when their husbands can no longer satisfy them in bed. Most times men with time depreciate in their bedroom politics and as they age. It may be a time a woman discover her s*xuality and in dire need of that s*xual connection. Once a husband starts disappointing, and the woman goes out to try out a new thing, it is hard for her to come back or stop. It is safe to say that men are also the cause of this. Some men pick up the hobby of alcoholism, poor dieting and unfaithfulness.

These men come back home with bags of excuses, that they are tired from work and such. Once married, some men will start to think that they have arrived and that their wives are immune to attention and that extra cravings for s*x. They'll ignore her and take her for granted thinking she is a nun and immune to s*xual craving. Don't assume. Most men that fall into this mindset are those that married their wives a virgin or believes that their wives need little or no s*x to survive. Some wives also give false impression at first that they can survive 5-10 years without s*x.

A woman once she is in her 30's is full mature s*xually. Some discover high libido during or after their pregnancy while others find theirs after menopause. Some after menopause their libido is reduced because of some hormonal factors, this can be corrected through hormonal therapy and drugs. Ask your doctor, a qualified gynecologist. So, please as a man, stop assuming that your wife of yesterday is still the same, a lot goes on inside her. She may not be s*xually active now but a lot can change.

•Married women cheat because of their kids, or so they say. Some cheat in order to train their children in school and provide for their needs. Most are 'forced' into this act as a easier option to cater for their children. This is usually found when a woman is forced into fending for herself and her kids. Men who shy away from their responsibilities are more susceptible to having a cheating wife.

A woman can endure anything but not when you are not taking care of her children.

However, wives that resort to cheating and infidelity as a tool to train their children are usually the lazy ones. Women of low vices.

Most lazy wives end up as cheats if the going gets tough. Women without handwork or career find it difficult to adjust if things are going wrong in their marriage. Instead of to support their husbands they start looking outside for help and most men will only help if they're getting something in return. You will find this sort of men saying the mantra that; "nothing goes for nothing." As time goes she may start doing something to get nothing. Before you know it, a happy marriage will collapse.

•Others cheat because of the their high taste and unrealistic expectations. They are the type that will never cut their suits to their size. Some of this women married because of the money and nothing more. They are always with that bogus expectations. Expecting so much but offer so little. Setting a standard they can't maintain on a long run. This type of women want to be seen and noticed in the society. Wear the best jewelries, cosmentics, clothes, shoes and drive good cars. The superficial women. Once their husbanbs can't offer them the kind of luxury lifestyle they dreamed of, and think they deserve, they are likely to start cheating. I've seen a husband that earns 3Ok but the wife rubs a 20k cream and wears at least 40k wigs of various sorts. Some of her jewelries is the man's salary for 3 months. This woman has been jobless all through her life.

•Some wives cheat because their husbands cheated. They cheat as a form of revenge. Their mindset is; "since he can cheat , I'll cheat ". They don't care since he did it first. If the husband is that type that craves that extra juice and won't stop this may become a norm and before you know it, they make their marriage an open swinger's club. "Do your own make I do my own, man no go vex" , this in a local planace means that they are okay with it. Trust me, with time, some if not all their kids will get used to the trade. I'm sorry if you get married to any of those children that has perfected their parent's craft.

•Married women cheat because they never broke up with their ex. This above statement is true when a woman still keeps her ex or boyfriend by the side even after marriage.
The heart always plays tricks on us especially if that trick is coming from a familiar source.

Once married and you still keep in touch with your ex on a personal level, and still meet for a hangout and such. There is a high likelihood that you may still crave that old time touch and for old time sake a married woman may find herself where she shouldn't be. As a married woman, break it up with your ex and please keep your communication simple and to the minimum. If possible cut it off entirely to be on the safer side. Avoid being on a secluded place with him and stop sharing your daily plans or activity with him, cos that fondness may grow and give him opportunity to exploit when you're at your vulnerable time. Stop calling him for advice no matter how 'gentleman' and 'wise'he can be. Don't tempt yourself.

Read more at https://www.pridesibiya.com/2020/01/6-reasons-why-married-women-cheat.html

Amen

09/07/2025

My Husband, I Have Been Unfaithful - Many Couples Have Been Cheating and This Story Will Prove It!

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She joined her husband in the bedroom. Their children were asleep. He was busy reading the newspaper. She looked at him."My love, there's something I need to confess" she began to speak."What is it?" he asked without looking at her, his face still glued to the newspaper."I have been unfaithful" she said.

He looked at her with fiery eyes. He slapped her. For the first time in their marriage, he slapped her.

"How could you woman?! Seventeen years of marriage, four children and this is what you do to me? You cheat on me? Foolish? How can you stoop so low?" he shouted.

He got up from the bed. He started pacing as he continued shouting, "You are the one who always tells me to keep off women. Out of respect, I keep females at a distance and you on the other hand do this?"He was just about to pounce on his wife and beat her. The sting of unfaithfulness enraged him. A knock was heard on the door.

Their first born, Maria, a fourteen year old girl walked in their bedroom."Mom, dad; is everything OK?" Maria asked.

"Get out! Get out!" he shouted as his daughter."It's OK Maria, Dad and I will sort this out. Go to sleep" She told their first born daughter, Maria.Maria walked out of their bedroom.

"Who is it? Who have you been unfaithful with?

Give me his phone number. He will know today who I am" he shouted trying to grab his wife's phone. She humbly took her phone."Show me his number. Show me his face. Filthy animal who is snatching my wife" he shouted some more.

"This is the man I have been unfaithful with" she said giving her husband her phone.Her husband looked at the screen of her phone and saw his own face and phone number."Me?!" he asked puzzled looking at her."Yes, I have been unfaithful with you.

I have been unfaithful to God because I have been so busy loving you. In my effort to try being a good wife, I have forgotten God" she said. He sat down on the bed, confused.

"When you met me, I was so devoted to God. In fact, you used to tell me that the most important reason you chose me as your wife was because of my devotion to God.

I loved the Godly man you used to be. We would pray and long to have a Godly family together. I remember the days I would fast and pray and tell God that if He blesses me with a good job, I will dedicate my career to Him. God did bless me, God blessed you, God blessed us. We did so well professionally, we got good money, we could afford a good wedding. We got married" she explained.

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He looked at her intently.

She continued, "The first few months of our marriage, we would pray as a family, go to Church, have fellowships, worship and Bible Study; but slowly, we stopped living by that Scripture that says as for me and my household we will serve the Lord. We started having children who we failed to raise in the Godly way. With success, we changed our friends.

We found the born again friends boring. We started worshiping money, success and materials. Look at us now, we live in a big house but God is absent. You started taking me to unGodly places to have fun, we started drinking too much, our children ashamed by our drinking." He looked away from her.

"In order to please you, I changed too; thinking that being a good wife means tagging along with everything you do. I didn't confront you when you started going astray, I didn't pull you back to God, I got lost with you.

So lost, that I started becoming proud, shallow, self-centered; all along thinking I am being a good wife. But this is not me. I have changed so much from the woman you found me. We both have changed much"He looked at her.

"All these. The good house, the good meals we eat, the money we have, the comfortable life; they have made us forget the God who gave them to us. I am nothing without God and I feel ashamed that I have abandoned the God responsible for all I am and have. We have started having troubles in our marriage, because the Lord is no longer building our love, we are doing it on our own and we will fail if we keep on like this "She reached out and touched his hand.

"I want to go back to the woman I used to be. A woman after God's own heart. I miss the peace that God gives, I miss worship, I miss reading the Word, I miss going to Church and fellowship, I miss meditating, I miss praying with you. What does it profit me to gain a good marriage yet lose my soul, my God? I am going back to God.

Only as a wife submitted to God, will I be the best wife to you and the best mother to our children. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God, but I cannot bring favour to you if I continue being disconnected from God. I want my spiritual life back. I want God back in our home, our marriage, our family".

He started breaking down in tears. His spirit convicted.
He held her tightly in his arms. "I am sorry. I am sorry for going astray and taking you with me. You chose to marry me because you thought you are marrying a Godly man. I miss being that Godly man.

Marriage shouldn't be a stumbling block in our walk with God. The thought of you cheating on me ripped my heart apart, I cannot even begin to imagine how God feels when we are unfaithful to Him. God having blessed us this much and we turn our backs on Him.

At the thought of you cheating on me I was filled with rage, yet God patiently looks at us in our unfaithfulness desiring us to go back to Him. I want to go back too. I want more in my life than these earthly things, I want God. I want the God of my youth. I am so sorry for slapping you".

That night, they knelt down and repented, rededicated their lives and marriage to God. The Prodigal Couple came back to God.

The next morning, they prayed together with their children.

God returned back to that home, because that couple returned back to God.

You will return back to God. Type AMEN.

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09/07/2025

Types of Cheating

1. Emotional Cheating

2. Romantic affair which comes with attachments

3. One-night stand

4. Serial sxx cheater

5. Love addict cheater

6. The revenge affair

7. The cyber-affair

8. The out-door exit strategy affair

9. Financial infidelity affair

Apostle Pride Sibiya

09/07/2025

Cheating is Not a Simple Mistake!

Cheating is not a mistake like accidentally putting salt instead of sugar in your coffee. Infidelity is a deliberate, consciously made choice that brings pain and suffering.

Every Kiss is a Promise

https://www.pridesibiya.com/2025/07/is-cheating-mistake.html Is Cheating A Mistake?

Don't accidentally kiss someone. Every kiss is a silent covenant, an exchange of promises and emotions. Lips that meet convey more than words can express.

Every Caress is a Poem

Don't caress by mistake. Every caress is a poem of the soul, a tender and affectionate gesture, meant to comfort and bring you closer.

Intimacy is a Dance

You don't end up in bed with someone by accident. Intimacy is a dance of desires, of soul and body closeness, an act of deep vulnerability.

Hidden Messages are Evidence of Lies

Don't hide messages by mistake. Each hidden message is evidence of a lie, a betrayal of the trust so generously placed.

True Love is a Choice

You can't break a soul by mistake. When you really love, you choose with all your being to be present, to be loyal, to be honest. True love is a beacon in the night, a sanctuary where hearts meet and bond in an eternal dance of faith and devotion.

The Consequences of Cheating

When you cheat, you're not wrong, you choose to betray. In this choice, you hurt not only the one you love but also yourself. You lose the light that true love brings, you lose trust, and most painfully, you lose the chance to truly experience the beauty of untainted love.
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Sire Apm Lukwesa

09/07/2025

Good day Apostle.

In response to why women cheat ini ndoona sok*ti zviripa 2.either ano cheater achida achiziva k*ti ndozvaarikuita or anoerekana avemo. Sometimes varume ava Havana time ye k*taura nesu anenge angori zii or kwindi haaseki or k*taura newe mumba munenge makatongorema. Vakadzi takasiyana ne varume tinoda the emotional side of affection that the physical one. So ndikawana anoitawo ndiseke I'm bound to cheat. Then secondly vamwe varume don't play they roles mudzimba umu. Haakwanisi kuita the slightest of roles kungobata batawo mu garden,, kuchinja bulb chairo zvese unenge uchingonzi ingoita

Ndopek*ti mkadzi anopedzisira a kunotsvaga vanogona kubatsira with those things and men observe zvek*ti... Vakaona k*ti baba vepano vanenge vari present but absent they see the wife to b vulnerable and always have their ways to get through to her. Ndopaunonzwa vamwe vakadzi vachiti I don't know how I got here and how I started cheating

Also k*tishaira time chaiko. Kana tarorwa it's not like takuda kuitwa midziyo yepamba. Todao kuita feel like takakoshao ku varume ava but seems the moment yaaroora ak*tokuona se display or sofa repamba pake iye aa busy k*tsvaga vamwe kunze instead of paying attention to my needs. Dzimwe nguva mkadzi anorwara murume haatomboisi effort to find out k*ti avesei anongosiyawo so. Ndopek*ti mkadzi akawana that person anomupa that attention haaa ari bound to cheat.

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Apostle Pride Sibiya

09/07/2025

Hello everyone, I am a 36 year old married woman and I have an 8 year old son.

I fell in love with a married man in my office. he also said that he loves me but after physical intimacy he started ignoring me. i asked him this he said he is having some problems at his end.

i waited for 10 days one day i had fight with him and I tried su***de got severaly injured. bed ridden for a month he didn't even visit once and blocked me from everywhere. i went to office after a month tried connecting but he remained indifferent. then i stopped chasing him after 2 months he again connected. i felt emotional again but this time i couldn't bear his attitude and i told everything to my boss and resigned. he showed chats to save himself and making me culprit that i was the one who was harassing him.

i also showed chats and they fired him. the thing is i want to come out of this i am into depression since i met him i am seeing a psychiatrist from july. but i am not able to come out. what to do for this please suggest.

09/07/2025

Witch Testifies, "Mwana Wandakatadza Kuroya!"

WITCHCRAFT CONFESSIONS

“Wakadii Mike (Pasi) ini ndiri muroyi. Huroyi hwangu ndewekupa vana chirwere che asthma kana vachiri vaduku ndinopa vehukama chete. Ndinoti kukanzi kwazvarwa mwana ndinomira kusvika bvudzi rake rakura asi risati ragerwa. Ndozoenda ndakuziva k*ti bvudzi rabuda.

https://www.pridesibiya.com/2021/04/witch-testifies-mwana-wandakatadza.html

Pandinombubata paya ndotora kabvudzi kemwana kadiki ndokaisa muruoko ndobuda kuenda k*toilet kana kuitchen ndokaisa mupurse mangu.Kana ndasvika kumba ndosanganisa nem...

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