12/11/2025
I tried talking it out for years…but I was still living the same emotional patterns.😔
We had a huge family gathering at my aunt’s house here in Nairobi.
Normally, when we get together, there’s that inevitable sense of “who’s missing” that hangs over the room.
But we didn’t avoid it this time.
We did something beautiful: we remembered and retold those old stories.
We talked about what my Papa used to say, how he used to eat his food, what he used to demand, and how he loved eating Tabasco.
Everybody had a good laugh about the way he used to tease my aunts when they were growing up.
It was just so nice to be able to remember those times and have a laugh about them.
Yes, when we finished, there was a tinge of sadness that he’s no longer here, but mostly there was a warmth in our hearts and a cherished feeling of how lovely that we had those times together.
And my aunt said to me, “If your Papa would be here, he would be so proud of the girls and the way they are in their life.”
Just hearing that from his sisters felt so beautiful.
That’s the difference healing makes.
You stop focusing on the absence and start living in the moment and loving the proud legacy you carry on.
And this is the essence of my work.
It isn’t just about supporting you to feel better, it’s about shifting your whole life’s energy toward warmth, laughter, and honour.
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