25/07/2025
🛁 “They Don’t Want to Shower” – Navigating Hygiene Issues in Dementia
💬 “She hasn’t showered in days.”
💬 “He says he already did… but he didn’t.”
💬 “They get angry when I even bring it up.”
👉 This is so common with dementia. And it’s not because they’re being difficult. It’s because:
• 🧠 They may forget they need to
• 🥶 They may feel cold or afraid of water
• 🚿 The shower may feel unsafe or overwhelming
• 😞 They may feel embarrassed needing help
🛠️ Try this:
💡 Call it “spa time” or “a warm rinse”
🪞Let them help set things up
👕 Use warm towels & pre-heated bathroom
📅 Create a routine so it’s expected
💬 Praise gently: “You must feel so fresh now!” #
❤️ Be patient. It’s not about forcing—it’s about helping them feel safe and in control.
