30/11/2025
This morning’s musings on the habit of measuring ourselves.
Do you notice yourself measuring your progress weighing your worth against how and where you think you should be?
I have to remind myself often that my mind and how it experiences each moment is not a reliable measurement of where I am, who I am, or who I’m becoming.
Some days carry a heavier load, feel a little flatter or messier than yesterday. The next day I can be plugged in, soft, grounded. How I feel on any given day is not a measure of my progress, feelings shift.
The truth is, none of these days define me or my evolution, because progress has nothing to do with how I felt today. Life will always show me where I am not yet free, where there is work to be done and the messier days is when the real learning happens.
Whenever I feel that pull of becoming bigger, better, more, I soften into it and allow compassion to flow into the places that are judging and comparing.
Growth opens in the space of acceptance so be more gentle, patient and kind with yourself, that’s what shapes the path of your evolution