10/11/2025
This might sound a** backward from what you think is healthy..
Because for years we’ve been taught the opposite:
❌ Only eat when you’re hungry
❌ Rest is not productive
❌ Workout in the morning
❌ Go to the gym
But these are the exact things my client Hayden stopped doing to get her period back in 8 weeks.
We uncovered that Hayden’s biggest hurdle was breaking her routine of doing what she thought was “all the right things” .
But those weird things, like journaling, meditating, resting more, not showing up to the gym anymore, isn’t exactly praised by anyone and when your a woman like Hayden where EVERYONE comments on her amazing fit body and her discipline well, doing these weird things don’t come easy. !
So doing the things that feel confusing or counterintuitive. But I am curious if you can think of it like Hayden did, re-teaching your body it’s safe again.
I know how scary this can feel, especially when your brain is still holding onto the fear of gaining weight.
I asked Hayden :
👉 Are you really afraid of “changing up your routine of doing all the right things”?
👉 Or are you afraid of your body changing?
Because that is often the real fear.
And ironically, trying to avoid weight gain or control doing all the “right things” is what keeps your body from recovering.
Hayden lived this. Until she didn’t.
It wasn’t until she stepped outside the rules she followed for years that things finally started to shift for her.
So here’s a prompt to sit with:
“What am I really afraid will happen if I give myself permission to do things differently like these “weird” things to help my body feel safe?”
(You might be surprised by what comes up.)
🩸 Recovery isn’t about “perfectly” doing it right.
It’s about consistently giving your body what it actually needs… even if it goes against everything you’ve been told.
Let me know if this hit home.
❤️ Cynthia