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Wildgeesefly Dr Albé Fourie (Counseling Psychologist/Somatic Experience Practitioner) and Marion Greene (Clinical Psychologist and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner)

08/10/2025

Revisit the work of Dr. Jane Goodall (1934-2025) through her 2 classic TED Talks — plus a special conversation with head of TED Chris Anderson in 2020. Her thoughts on the relationship between humans, nature and our role in protecting Earth remain as relevant as ever: http://t.ted.com/UiqOFoD

08/10/2025

Book: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking https://amzn.to/480We3b [ad]

Painting: 'Rubens Peale with a Geranium', 1801 by Rembrandt [detail]

08/10/2025

Your anxiety isn't who you are, or a result of who you are. Anxiety is simply the nervous system calling out for safety, not a judgment on your value or worth. When we can see anxiety in this way, space opens for compassion, and for the possibility of healing.

Quote from Navigating Anxiety with Jeffrey Rutstein, PsyD, CHT. Learn more about this program here: https://bit.ly/htp-anxiety

05/10/2025
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23/09/2025

Dead Horse Theory

A satirical metaphor that reveals how some people, institutions, and even entire nations deal with an obvious problem as if it were an unsolvable mystery!
Instead of admitting the truth, they ignore it… and become masters at justifying it!

⚫ The idea is simple:
If you realize you're riding a dead horse...
The smartest decision you can make is to get off immediately.

But reality?
Reality shows us that some people insist on taking bizarre actions, such as:

1️⃣ Buying a new saddle for the horse.
2️⃣ Feeding it as if it were still alive!
3️⃣ Changing the rider, as if the problem lies with them!
4️⃣ Firing the employee in charge of caring for the horse.
5️⃣ Holding long meetings to discuss how to increase the speed of the dead horse!
6️⃣ Forming committees and task forces to analyze the horse’s condition.
7️⃣ And after months of studies, they reach a conclusion that was obvious from the start:
“The horse... is dead.”
8️⃣ But they still don’t admit it! Instead, they compare it with other dead horses to justify the failure!
9️⃣ They decide the problem lies in training and request a training course for the horse!
🔟 And of course, the course needs a budget!

🟤 In the end, denial reaches a point where they redefine the word “dead”...
Just to convince themselves that the horse is still alive and well!

The lesson:
How many people and institutions prefer to live in a comforting illusion rather than face a bitter truth?
How much time, effort, and money do we waste denying what is as clear as day?

Admitting the problem is the first step toward solving it…
But clinging to a dead horse will get you nowhere!

17/09/2025

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