05/12/2025
✨ The Shift From Self-Blame to Self-Understanding ✨
This story follows a lifelong experience of living with a mind that wouldn’t slow down — from childhood confusion and struggles with focus and friendships, to academic difficulties and the overwhelming pressure of not being able to “just start” a task. It traces the moment of discovering ADHD, opening up to a psychologist, getting diagnosed with ADHD with comorbid anxiety, and finally gaining tools — like planning methods, to-do lists, movement breaks, and strategies to manage time blindness and executive dysfunction.
It then reflects on how these supports led to thriving in 11th and 12th grade, becoming Head of School Council, spreading awareness about ADHD, pursuing Applied Psychology, and learning to manage the same challenges that once felt impossible. Ultimately, it looks back with compassion for the younger self who didn’t know better — and acknowledges ADHD not as a flaw, but as a path that shaped a meaningful and self-aware journey.
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