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🍊 🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 29 + 30 NOV 25: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness ✨You ...
28/10/2025

🍊 🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 29 + 30 NOV 25: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
🍊 ONLINE: 4 WEEK COURSE I - Mondays 26th Jan - 16th FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication, Solo & Partner Sex
🍊 BERLIN: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 31 JAN + 1 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 14 + 15 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT III - 28 + 29 MAR 26: Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure & Slow Sex

ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com
Disclaimer: All pictures from Retreats are optional, and will never portray the entirety of our participants
                             
London: .h0me
Berlin: 

22/10/2025

★★★★★ „I had few expectations, though something about the blurb and branding indicated the retreat would helpful for me during an interesting (and somewhat daunting) moment in my romantic and sexual life. And it was helpful, extraordinarily so in fact. I’m still absorbing the experience I think, but I already have a feeling it’s one I’ll long look back upon as being formative (or maybe reformative?), and perhaps in ways that go beyond sex and romance.“ - A.
🍊 🍊LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 29 + 30 NOV 25: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
🍊 ONLINE: 4 WEEK COURSE I - Mondays 26th Jan - 16th FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication, Solo & Partner Sex
🍊 BERLIN: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 31 JAN + 1 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 14 + 15 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT III - 28 + 29 MAR 26: Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure & Slow Sex
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com
Disclaimer: All pictures from Retreats are optional, and will never portray the entirety of our participants
                             
London: .h0me
Berlin: 

★★★★★ „I left sex club with answers to questions I didn’t even know I had. If you’re not sure if it’s for you but you’re...
08/10/2025

★★★★★ „I left sex club with answers to questions I didn’t even know I had. If you’re not sure if it’s for you but you’re considering it, then it probably is! The space was held really well, I always felt safe and supported, and we built slowly so I always felt in control of my own narrative and place in the group.“ - A.
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 29 + 30 NOV 25: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
🍊 ONLINE: 4 WEEK COURSE I - Mondays 26th Jan - 16th FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication, Solo & Partner Sex
🍊 BERLIN: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 31 JAN + 1 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 14 + 15 FEB 26: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT III - 28 + 29 MAR 26: Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure & Slow Sex
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com
Disclaimer: All pictures from Retreats are optional, and will never portray the entirety of our participants
                             
London: .h0me
Berlin: 

🔥 Come learn why boundaries and good communication are super sexy!🔥 Why being honest and open with your desires and fear...
14/08/2025

🔥 Come learn why boundaries and good communication are super sexy!

🔥 Why being honest and open with your desires and fears is a turn-on!

🔥 How touch done with presence and care is such an aphrodisiac!

🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 27 + 28 Sept 25: Desire, Boundaries, Fears, Communication and Nuances of Touch -

Sat 27th Sep 2025, 11am – Sun 28th Sep 2025, 5:30pm BST (UTC +01:00)

We're excited for the next Sex Club Retreat III weekend happening in Ldn on 29th & 30th March. It will be a deep dive in...
12/03/2025

We're excited for the next Sex Club Retreat III weekend happening in Ldn on 29th & 30th March.

It will be a deep dive into the themes of Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure and Slow Sex.

If it calls you, we'd love to see you there...

Sat 29th Mar 2025, 11am – Sun 30th Mar 2025, 5:30pm GMT (UTC +00:00)

★★★★★ „I didn’t expect that normalizing talking about fascinating intimate subjects around sexuality could be so powerfu...
10/06/2024

★★★★★ „I didn’t expect that normalizing talking about fascinating intimate subjects around sexuality could be so powerful.

It gave me a lot of precious keys to be able to communicate efficiently in a relationship or when meeting a new partner. I also got new creative ideas to play with intimacy and learnt so much for the group’s experiences.

I very highly recommend this workshop for everyone. We are all mirrors of each other and have so much knowledge and experience to share and learn from." - Pauline L.
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LONDON, BERLIN & ONLINE
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 28 + 29 SEP 24: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch: https://dandelion.events/e/k9xqu
🍊🍊 LONDON: RETREAT II - 16 + 17 NOV 24: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness: https://dandelion.events/e/p14nc
🍊🍊 BERLIN: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 15 + 16 FEB 25: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch: https://dandelion.events/e/h5tu9
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
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ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com

Berlin: // London: .h0me

Enquire into your TRUTH, LOVE, (no) ORGASMS, SENSUALITY & PLAYFULNESS via spoken and somatic exercises, AND learn from t...
09/02/2024

Enquire into your TRUTH, LOVE, (no) ORGASMS, SENSUALITY & PLAYFULNESS via spoken and somatic exercises, AND learn from the group.
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 24th + 25th FEB 24: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
A few enquiries of the weekend:
⭐ What is true for you when it comes to what you want and don’t want sexually? How do you communicate this? Have you been hiding from some truths?
⭐ Do you have agency over opening and closing yourself to love? How does it feel to experience it in connection with sex, at a one-night stand, with lovers or in a partnership?
⭐ How do you feel about your orgasms (or lack of) and how do you feel about the orgasms (or lack of) of your lovers?
⭐ What holds you back from inviting in more sensuality and playfulness into your sex life?
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ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com

London: .h0me

★★★★★ „A real safe space to talk about sexuality and show vulnerability. Wonderful for all people who want to take first...
07/02/2024

★★★★★ „A real safe space to talk about sexuality and show vulnerability. Wonderful for all people who want to take first steps to (re)discover themselves as sexual beings and for everyone who is already on this journey. I was a newbie with a lot of uncertainty and I felt that I was in good hands with Jules anytime. I wish there were many more spaces like this! “ - Katharina, February Berlin Retreat II
✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 24th + 25th FEB 24: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
🍊🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT III - 16th + 17th MAR 24: Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure & Slow Sex
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ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com
Disclaimer: All pictures from Retreats are optional, and will never portray the entirety of our participants

London: .h0me

✨Dear All ✨My partner and I are expecting a baby. It’s truly mesmerizing to think that everything I’ve experienced in my...
19/01/2024

✨Dear All ✨

My partner and I are expecting a baby. It’s truly mesmerizing to think that everything I’ve experienced in my 43 years of life is now about to take on a whole new dimension. I wholeheartedly welcome this new life and dimension with every single cell in my body.

Starting in April, I will be taking a baby break to focus on this new chapter. I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have the opportunity to take this time for myself and my family.

Simultaneously, I love the feeling that - even as I embrace the anticipation of this new chapter - my passion and commitment to Sex Club and my work as a therapist remain unwavering. This includes all of you - the participants, those aspiring to join, and my therapy clients.

So, while my excitement for this new life and the upcoming baby break is immense, I also look forward to my return to Sex Club, which is scheduled for the beginning of 2025.

My final Sex Club event before the break will be held at London Retreat III on March 16th and 17th.

Our Sex Club Retreats will be scheduled as normal throught my maternity leave and hosted by Conor and our new female assistant-facilitator who we’re incredibly excited to add to our team, more on that soon!

I hope to see lots of you in the months before I leave.

With love,
Jules 🧡

✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨★★★★★ „Two days of connection both with myself and with...
19/01/2024

✨You don’t need to attend Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III ✨
★★★★★ „Two days of connection both with myself and with others. So well facilitated by Jules and Conor, who both brought warmth, wisdom and humour. And amazing insights and learnings shared by all the participants. An incredibly rich experience that is going to stay with me for a long, long time.“ - Alice J.
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LONDON, BERLIN & ONLINE
🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT I - 20th + 21st JAN 24: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication & Nuances of Touch
🍊 ONLINE: 4 WEEK COURSE I - Mondays 22nd Jan + 12th FEB 24: Desires, Boundaries, Fears, Communication, Solo & Partner Sex
🍊🍊 BERLIN: RETREAT II - 3rd + 4th FEB 24: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT II - 24th + 25th FEB 24: Truth, Insecurities, Love, (no) Orgasms, Sensuality & Playfulness
🍊🍊 LONDON: WEEKEND RETREAT III - 16th + 17th FEB 24: Presence, Shame, Fantasy, Self-Pleasure & Slow Sex
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ALL TICKETS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com
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It’s ok to feel nervous, email us for any questions: conor@sexclubme.com, jules@sexclubme.com

Berlin: // London: .h0me

Last week, we had our quarterly free online check in to reflect on the year. Someone described the check in as ‚a warm b...
17/01/2024

Last week, we had our quarterly free online check in to reflect on the year. Someone described the check in as ‚a warm bath of hugs‘.

✨❄️ JOIN US IN THE ENQUIRY ❄️✨

✨ How was last year for you sexually?

… incl. all that goes along with it life, love, relationships, dating, being single, not having sex a lot, at all or anything in between.

❄️ What are your insights about yourself?

…or absence of

⭐What are your intentions for this season?

…what‘s a specific action you‘d like to take

::: Some keywords & topics from the check in with our Sex Club community last week :::

🍊🍌🍊REFLECTIONS on the past year..

constantly evolving sex life : revealing more of self & sexual excitement : shame about being too expressive in sex : sexual awakening in late adulthood : sex club as catalyst : importance of connection to one’s own body : owning desire : body awareness : discovery & rediscovery : having an erection or not, all is ok : getting the ground ready for engaging again sexually : importance of reconnection & repair : beauty of day to day life rather than just intense moments : soul dimension sex : openly trusting love : letting love in : the influence of big life stuff on orgasms & sex : craving softness : beauty of being held by friends : excited teenager feeling after being together for decades : how sex can help processing conflicts : opening up long term marriage after many years : finding out who I am next to being a wife, mother, etc. : foreplay beginning when sex ends …

🌙⛄❄️ INTENTIONS for this season…

connect with fun and pleasure of being sexual : share authenticity of who I am : freedom to communicate : ask for what I need : be in nature : knowing when to stop : fully loving myself : taking my desires serious …

❄️✨ HAPPY WINTER EVERYONE ✨❄️

With love
Jules & Conor

ALL EVENTS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com

Email us for any questions: jules@sexclubme.com, conor@sexclubme.com

                           

Last week, we had our quarterly free online check in to reflect on the year. Someone described the check in as ‚a warm b...
16/01/2024

Last week, we had our quarterly free online check in to reflect on the year. Someone described the check in as ‚a warm bath of hugs‘.

✨❄️ JOIN US IN THE ENQUIRY ❄️✨

✨ How was last year for you sexually?

… incl. all that goes along with it life, love, relationships, dating, being single, not having sex a lot, at all or anything in between.

❄️ What are your insights about yourself?

…or absence of

⭐What are your intentions for this season?

…what‘s a specific action you‘d like to take

::: Some keywords & topics from the check in with our Sex Club community last week :::

🍊🍌🍊REFLECTIONS on the past year..

constantly evolving sex life : revealing more of self & sexual excitement : shame about being too expressive in sex : sexual awakening in late adulthood : sex club as catalyst : importance of connection to one’s own body : owning desire : body awareness : discovery & rediscovery : having an erection or not, all is ok : getting the ground ready for engaging again sexually : importance of reconnection & repair : beauty of day to day life rather than just intense moments : soul dimension sex : openly trusting love : letting love in : the influence of big life stuff on orgasms & sex : craving softness : beauty of being held by friends : excited teenager feeling after being together for decades : how sex can help processing conflicts : opening up long term marriage after many years : finding out who I am next to being a wife, mother, etc. : foreplay beginning when sex ends …

🌙⛄❄️ INTENTIONS for this season…

connect with fun and pleasure of being sexual : share authenticity of who I am : freedom to communicate : ask for what I need : be in nature : knowing when to stop : fully loving myself : taking my desires serious …

❄️✨ HAPPY WINTER EVERYONE ✨❄️

With love
Jules & Conor

ALL EVENTS, REVIEWS & NEWSLETTER SIGN UP: sexclubme.com

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Email us for any questions: jules@sexclubme.com, conor@sexclubme.com

                           

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Why S*x Club?

S*xual liberation is at the heart of individual transformation, without which there can be no meaningful societal progress.

In November 2017, I hosted a S*x Club for the first time. I realised that all the 'work' that I'm doing on the road towards a more authentic self, if self exists, has not automatically translated into my s*x life. It feels like an extra muscle that I need to develop. I was conditioned to believe that saying anything during s*x would ruin the moment. It turns out all that it ruined was my or***ms. Despite the openness of my friends and community in various sharing spaces, talking about s*x is not always easy or straightforward and the majority spends little time cultivating it.

We are now a team of hosts and have hosted S*x Club at festivals over the summer and it is now a monthly event in different locations in London. Our intention for S*x Club is to break the taboos around intimacy and s*xuality by listening and talking about it, with curiosity and in juicy detail.

Participants are invited to join a closed Facebook Group to further share and exchange experiences and knowledge. Our passion is to encourage people to host their own S*x Club to further normalise talking about s*x in and outside of the bedroom, because s*xy communication is a first step to a more fun and conscious s*x life. We’re supporting this with sharing a how-to-guide.