08/04/2025
In 2022, I did a presentation for Women in Leadership titled "Lifting Others Up Through Authentic Connecting."
Three years later, as I was cleaning out my Adobe cloud, this presentation lay dormant, but it feels very relevant right now.
With the noise of news, political and economic chaos, and a genocide live streaming on our phones, what I notice for myself, I'm leaning into my people and community.
I'm staying grounded in connection with folks who keep it real, are looking inward, who are genuine in their care and concern for themselves, their community, humanity, and this planet.
And I'm trying to do the same, which also means I'm leaning into my tools and nervous system work.
Nervous system work isn't about being calm. It's about creating capacity within yourself so you can show up for the people, places, and things you are passionate about. I can't afford to hit burnout. My body deserves much more than the bare minimum of care right now. As does yours.
Nervous system work isn't about YOU thriving. Self-regulation is taught through co-regulation, humans have always been wired for connection and community. We do this work, pouring into ourselves so we can pour into others. We thrive in community.
Nervous system work isn't about avoiding triggers. It's about resilience/flexibility within our system, so when you inevitably get triggered, you can choose an appropriate response instead of feeling like a slave to old patterns.
I think more than ever, a lot of us are seeking something deeper than just the surface bu****it of life.
We want change. We want our default mode to be a mix of curiosity and joy.
We want to feel purposeful, but not for capitalistic gains.
We want our energy and actions to foster something that enriches our souls and proples us out of bed in the AM. Something bigger than us that includes all of us.
We want to restore the sacredness of life and the genuine authenticity of human to human interactions.
I want to remove the word stranger from my vocabulary and see everyone as my equal - a brother or sister, distant relative, and fellow human being. That's what I want. That's what I'm working towards. ❤️