08/11/2019
As a loved one ages, family members often have to step up to care for them. Unprepared for the reality of caregiving, these new caregivers can face a rude awakening. They might think their duties can easily fit into their own work-life schedule. They might assume that nothing unexpected will happen or that burden of caregiving will not increase over time. Unfortunately, they're often wrong.
1. CAREGIVING IS DIFFICULT
New family caregivers an be surprised by the difficulty of caring for an aging or infirmed loved one. It is hard work and can be much more demanding than expected. This is especially true when they are already juggling other family and work responsibilities.
2. FAMILY DYNAMICS
One surprise awaiting a new caregiver is to discover that not all members of the family will be open to assisting in caregiving. As a caregiver, be sensitive to the fact that other members of the family might not have the same approach and willingness to help that you do.
3.THE BURDEN CAN GROW
As time oases, the caregiver may find themselves under ever-increasing demands. As loved ones face deteriorating conditions from disease, age, and injuries, it can make the family caregiving challenge even harder.
4. SOMETIMES ONE PERSON ISN'T ENOUGH
The challenge of family caregiving may well become one that individual caregivers simply are not equipped to effectively manage. This is often not do to a lack of willingness on the part of the family caregiver but more due to lack of medical knowledge, difficulty in keeping employment, and facing family demands.
Family caregivers should always remember that they are not alone. There are a host of great community help available and support you need.