31/03/2026
Things I Wish I Knew Before Breastfeeding â Episode 8
Your body will change, and that does not make it any less worthy of love.đ¤
No one really prepares you for this part.
Your breasts may feel different.
Your weight may shift.
Your body may not quite feel like your own yet.
And somewhere in all of that, you might start being hard on yourself.
But hereâs what I wish I knew sooner:
This body grew your baby.
This body birthed your baby.
This body is feeding your baby.
Breastfeeding increases your bodyâs energy demands and involves major hormonal shifts. Your body is not failing you, it is working incredibly hard every single day to nourish your baby (Victora et al., 2016; Neville et al., 2001).
And yet, so many mothers feel pressure to âbounce back.â
You do not need to bounce back.
You have been through so much.
You deserve kindness in this season too.
If your body feels unfamiliar right now, please be gentle with yourself.
Research shows that many mothers struggle with body image during the postpartum period, which means you are not alone if youâve felt this way too (Clark et al., 2009).
I really wish I had been kinder to myself sooner đ¤
Save this for the days you need the reminder.
References (Harvard style)
Clark, A., Skouteris, H., Wertheim, E.H., Paxton, S.J. and Milgrom, J. (2009) âThe relationship between depression and body dissatisfaction across the perinatal periodâ, Body Image, 6(4), pp. 263â269.
Neville, M.C., Morton, J. and Umemura, S. (2001) âLactogenesis: the transition from pregnancy to lactationâ, Pediatric Clinics of North America, 48(1), pp. 35â52.
Victora, C.G., Bahl, R., Barros, A.J.D., França, G.V.A., Horton, S., Krasevec, J., Murch, S., Sankar, M.J., Walker, N. and Rollins, N.C. (2016) âBreastfeeding in the 21st century: epidemiology, mechanisms, and lifelong effectâ, The Lancet, 387(10017), pp. 475â490.