Melissa Myburgh Speech Therapy & Family Counselling

Melissa Myburgh Speech Therapy & Family Counselling Passionate about building confident children one small step at a time.

Special interests:
▪️Selective Mutism
▪️Neurodiveristy
▪️Neurodivergent-affirming counselling
▪️Reading and Learning support.

Building a 'Talking Bridge' with Selective Mutism 👇🏻​Today, I had a truly rewarding session with two incredible primary ...
03/12/2025

Building a 'Talking Bridge' with Selective Mutism 👇🏻

​Today, I had a truly rewarding session with two incredible primary school students, demonstrating a key therapeutic technique for Selective Mutism (SM).

​Our goal was to transfer communication skills practiced in individual sessions to a social setting.

▪️​Client A has Selective Mutism and is typically unable to speak around, or directly to, children in his school environment. After months of therapy, he now speaks comfortably to me, as well as to his teachers and other unfamiliar adults. Peers at school remain a challenge.
▪️​Client B served as a fantastic, supportive communication partner.
​We used a Guess Who game to create a controlled social interaction, which I call a "talking bridge" scenario.

​Initially, Client A used me to relay his messages to Client B (e.g., "Ask him if his character has glasses," or "Tell him I think it's the pirate"). This indirect communication allowed him to participate without the full pressure of direct peer interaction.
​As the game progressed, Client A became visibly more relaxed. We began hearing louder speech and more spontaneous communication directed at me.

​This progress perfectly illustrates the use of stimulus fading and desensitization in SM treatment. We are slowly introducing the feared social stimuli (speaking to peers) within a safe and structured activity.

​The next therapeutic step is to gradually remove the "talking bridge" (me!) to encourage more direct, spontaneous speech between Client A and his peer. Incremental steps like this are critical to success!

An example of how we use "brave charts" in speech therapy to help take small steps towards overcoming selective mutism. ...
27/11/2025

An example of how we use "brave charts" in speech therapy to help take small steps towards overcoming selective mutism. This particular chart is super special, done by a dad and his princess. She has been practicing her brave muscles a while now and is starting to take big leaps!

I am a proud Speechie 😍🤩

Soooo true 🙏🏻
26/11/2025

Soooo true 🙏🏻

If you're a speech therapist, you are obsessed with the Hungry Caterpillar! 😝 So many uses for speech and language devel...
10/11/2025

If you're a speech therapist, you are obsessed with the Hungry Caterpillar! 😝 So many uses for speech and language development..and kids love the big bright illustrations and predictable text 😁

In my previous post, we spoke about HOW to ask questions to children with selective mutism. In this post we explore what...
10/09/2025

In my previous post, we spoke about HOW to ask questions to children with selective mutism. In this post we explore what to do when the responses don't come easily or when the moment doesn't go as planned. The gentle strategies help reduce pressure, build trust, and keep communication flowing- even if it means using a puppet, a whisper to a parent, or simply waiting a little longer.
Remember to slow down & stay in the moment.

Progress looks different for each child 💚🌻

I had a fantastic time recording a podcast with Kids Innovate Africa - kia where we delved into encouraging communicatio...
09/09/2025

I had a fantastic time recording a podcast with Kids Innovate Africa - kia where we delved into encouraging communication skills in neurodivergent children Kids Innovate Africa - kia

https://youtu.be/ZVD8mGTu69s?si=TuGQmzD1x3IgaBCc

Thank you to the team over at Kids Innovate for all the incredible work you do in the neurodivergent community 💚

Communication is more than words, it’s connection, confidence, and finding your voice.In this episode of Beyond the Box, host Emma Mphahlele sits down with ...

For children with selective mutism, even simple questions can feel overwhelming. The pressure to respond can trigger anx...
08/09/2025

For children with selective mutism, even simple questions can feel overwhelming. The pressure to respond can trigger anxiety and shut down communication. That is why it is so important to with the most gentlest forms- like indirect comments- and gradually build up, across different people and settlings. With patience and the right approach, every small response becomes a brave step forward. 💚🌻

Ready to unlock real-life communication? 🗣️ Functional language therapy isn't about memorizing flashcards—it's about bui...
04/09/2025

Ready to unlock real-life communication? 🗣️ Functional language therapy isn't about memorizing flashcards—it's about building practical skills for everyday life! From ordering coffee to making friends on the playground, we focus on what truly matters. It's meaningful, it's personal, and it's the best way to see real progress.


Selective Mutism (SM) is often misunderstood, but with the right information, we can make a difference. Diagnosing SM is...
30/07/2025

Selective Mutism (SM) is often misunderstood, but with the right information, we can make a difference. Diagnosing SM is a crucial first step toward providing support and intervention. It's not about shyness or defiance; it's an anxiety disorder that prevents a child from speaking in specific social situations where there's an expectation to speak, despite being able to speak comfortably in other settings (like at home).

Do you have questions about selective mutism or want to share your experience? Let us know in the comments below, or share this post to help spread awareness and support for children with SM!

Ticked off something on my bucket list this week ✔️ Record a podcast about a topic I love 😍This week I was hosted by Emm...
24/07/2025

Ticked off something on my bucket list this week ✔️ Record a podcast about a topic I love 😍

This week I was hosted by Emma at Kids Innovate Africa - kia where we had an insightful conversation about supporting communication in neurodiversity.

Can't wait to share with you guys!

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