27/07/2022
As parents, we are constantly comparing our children to others. Whilst this can be a source of great pride, it can also become a source of worry that something is wrong with our child or that we are doing something wrong as parents.
Every child is different. Children develop differently, have different personalities, possess different strengths and require different kinds of support to meet their individual needs.
If your child is a little ahead or a little behind at a certain age - this is normal. Most of the time, given the right nurturing and stimulation, all children will catch up in the end.
Many parents are feeling under increasing pressure to ‘get their parenting right’. Others feel under increasing pressure to do well in raising their children who in turn are expected to succeed in school, recreation and employment.
The task of parenting is a constantly changing one as the growing needs and abilities of our children change over time. There is no ‘one-size fits all’ way to parent. What works for one child may not work for another. What worked when children were two years old may not work when they are four.
Finally, avoid comparing your child to others.