Stargirl light -know the truth about cancer

19/11/2025

💜 Palliative Care: A Journey of Love, Courage & Gentle Hands 💜

Palliative care is one of the hardest topics to talk about yet it is one of the most important.
Many people hear the word and think it means “the end,” or that hope has disappeared.
But the truth is this:

Palliative care is not giving up.
It is giving more more comfort, more dignity, more love.

I learned this in the most painful, personal way.

When my daughter was fighting cancer, we eventually reached a point where her body was tired. The treatments were heavy, and the pain came in waves I wished I could take for her. I remember sitting beside her, watching her strength, her bravery, her light…

And it was palliative care that helped us hold on to the moments that mattered.

✨ Palliative care gave her comfort when her body was exhausted.
✨ It gave her a chance to smile on days she should have been crying.
✨ It gave us time precious, meaningful, gentle time.
✨ It allowed me to be her mother first, not just her nurse, her fighter, her protector.

People think palliative care means letting go.
But for us, it meant holding her closer.

It wasn’t about counting the days.
It was about filling the days with love.

Palliative care focuses on pain relief, emotional support, and bringing dignity to a journey that is often full of fear and uncertainty. It is a team that steps in when everything feels heavy, reminding families that comfort is a form of hope — a different kind of hope, but still hope.

For parents like me, who have watched their child battle a serious illness, palliative care becomes a safe place.
A place where suffering is softened.
A place where the child’s voice is heard.
A place where families are supported, guided, and held.

My daughter’s journey taught me that palliative care is not about death it is about living, even in fragile moments.
It is about giving children moments they deserve: laughter, stories, warm hands, peaceful sleep, and love that surrounds them like a blanket.

And for us who remain, it becomes part of our healing too.

As grieving mothers, as caregivers, as families walking this road we carry memories shaped by love, not by fear.

🌟 Let us continue raising awareness.
Let us support families who are choosing comfort and compassion for their loved ones.
Let us remind the world that palliative care is a gift a final act of love. 🌟

18/11/2025

💜✨ UPDATE ON SHALOM’S SURGERY ✨💜

Today my heart is full.
Shalom came out of surgery successfully, and even after everything she has been facing, she came out in good spirit.
Tired, yes… but awake, aware, and still holding that quiet strength that has carried her this far.

When the doctors confirmed she was stable, it felt like the whole room could breathe again.
She has walked through so much, and today she overcame another mountain.

To everyone who donated, shared the appeal, prayed silently, prayed loudly, or simply held her in your thoughts you were part of this miracle.
Your kindness gave her mother hope and placed Shalom in a circle of love and support.

Her healing journey continues, but today we pause and say:
“Thank you, God. Thank you, community. Thank you for keeping her safe.”

💜 From Stargirl Light – standing with every child and every family walking through the darkest valleys 💜

17/11/2025

🌟 Children & Cancer: The Pain We Don’t Talk About Enough 💜

Childhood cancer is one of the hardest truths in this world a truth most people avoid, deny, or don’t understand until it happens in their own home.
But for some of us… it wasn’t a story we read online.
It was our life.
It was our child.
It was our battle.

Cancer in children doesn’t come with warnings.
There is no preparation.
No manual.
No time to breathe.

One day you are packing school lunches and laughing at silly jokes…
and the next day you are sitting in a hospital corridor, praying for a miracle you didn’t know you needed.

Childhood cancer is real.
Not rare enough.
Not talked about enough.
Not understood enough.

And yet, every child deserves to be seen.
Every symptom deserves to be taken seriously.
Every parent deserves to know the signs before it’s too late.

💜 The emotional reality many don’t see

People see a sick child.
But they don’t see the mother holding her breath through every test result.
They don’t see the father trying to be strong while breaking inside.
They don’t see siblings quietly suffering because the home they knew has changed forever.

People see bravery.
But they don’t see the nights a child cries because the pain is too much.
The moments they’re tired of needles, tired of machines, tired of being strong when all they want is their old life back.
The way their little body fights harder than most adults ever will.

People see awareness months.
But they don’t see the children who never made it to the next month.
The empty bed.
The unfinished dreams.
The parents who now live with a forever silence.

💜 Signs we must never ignore

These symptoms look innocent that’s what makes childhood cancer so dangerous:

Unexplained fevers

Constant tiredness

Sudden weight loss

Bruising that doesn’t make sense

Persistent pain, especially at night

Swollen lymph nodes

Headaches with vomiting

Changes in vision

Lumps or swelling

Most of us never knew these signs.
Most of us thought, “It’s just flu… it’s just growing pains… it’s nothing serious.”
And while sometimes that’s true, sometimes it isn’t.
And that difference can save a life.

💜 Why this matters to me

I share this because I walked this journey with my daughter.
I watched her fight like a warrior.
I saw her strength outshine the pain.
I saw her smile even on days when life felt too heavy for her small body.
And I saw how awareness or the lack of it changes everything.

This is not just “a topic” for me.
It is a mission born from love, loss, and truth.
It is the light my daughter left behind…
A light I now carry forward through Stargirl Light Know the Truth About Cancer.

💜 Let’s stand together

Don’t scroll past childhood cancer awareness posts.
Don’t avoid the conversations because they are painful.
Don’t look away because it’s uncomfortable.

Talking about it saves lives.
Awareness changes outcomes.
Love gives families strength when the world is falling apart.

If you’re reading this…
you’re part of the mission.
You’re part of the hope.
You’re part of the light.
💜✨

14/11/2025

💜 COMMUNITY SUPPORT APPEAL – HELP SHALOM 💜

As part of our ongoing commitment to supporting families affected by serious illness, Stargirl Light – Know The Truth About Cancer is sharing this urgent medical appeal on behalf of Shalom’s family.

Shalom is currently admitted at Johannesburg Hospital and urgently needs R10,000 so the doctors can proceed with her amputation surgery. Her mother, Ndakadashe Shumba, is doing everything she can, but they need support during this critical time.

To assist:
📱 EcoCash / E-Wallet / Mukuru / WorldRemit
☎️ Contact for donations & information:

WhatsApp: +263 78 389 6440

SA Calls: +27 60 304 4582

🙏 For transparency, the hospital receipt has been included in this post.

📸 Photo shared with family permission.

Even if you are unable to assist financially, kindly share this post so it can reach more people who may be able to help.

💜 Thank you for standing with families in need.
Stargirl Light – Know The Truth About Cancer

08/11/2025

🌟 The Power of Community Support 🌟

Cancer is not just a medical journey it’s an emotional, physical, and spiritual one.
And no one should ever have to walk that path alone.

Community support is one of the most powerful forms of healing. It’s the invisible medicine that doesn’t come in a bottle, but in kindness, time, and presence.

It’s found in the people who show up
💜 The friend who checks in, even when they don’t know what to say.
💜 The neighbor who drops off food because they know you’ve had a long day at the hospital.
💜 The church member who prays quietly for your strength.
💜 The stranger who sends a message that reminds you that your story still matters.

When my daughter was sick, I realized that true community is not measured by numbers, but by hearts.
The smallest act of love a visit, a call, a smile can hold more healing power than words can describe.
There were moments when exhaustion tried to break me, but a message from someone who cared gave me strength to keep going.

Families facing cancer often feel forgotten once the diagnosis becomes old news. But that’s when community matters most.
Because when you show up for someone in pain, you’re not just giving comfort you’re giving them hope.

Let’s be that kind of community.
Let’s be the light that stays when others walk away.
Together, we can make this journey less lonely, one heart at a time. 💜

03/11/2025

💜 Happy 13th Birthday, Shalom 💜

Today we celebrate not just another year of life, but the incredible strength and courage of a young warrior who continues to inspire us all.

Shalom, your journey reminds the world that cancer doesn’t define a child their light, laughter, and will to live do. You’ve shown us what true bravery looks like: facing pain with a smile and holding on to hope when it’s hardest to find.

Your story speaks for every child fighting silently, every parent praying endlessly, and every heart that believes healing can come in many forms.

At Stargirl Light, we honor you today a true symbol of courage, love, and unshakable hope. Keep shining, beautiful girl. The world sees your light. 💜✨

28/10/2025

💜 Shalom’s Story — A Fighter Wrapped in Purple 💜

There are children who carry light even through the darkest days Shalom is one of them.
She was diagnosed with bone cancer in October 2024, and since then, every day has been a battle of courage, faith, and hope.

Her name means peace and that’s exactly what she brings to those around her. Even in pain, her spirit stays calm, her smile soft but strong. Her favorite color is purple the color of strength, dignity, and royalty. And that’s what she is strong, dignified, and brave beyond words. 💫

Shalom reminds us that cancer isn’t just a medical condition it’s a journey of the heart. It’s about fighting when you’re tired, believing when it seems impossible, and holding on to faith when everything feels uncertain.

Let’s surround Shalom with love and prayers as she continues her fight. And let her story remind us all every moment of kindness, every message of hope, and every act of awareness can make a difference. 💜

🎗️ Awareness: Understanding Bone Cancer in Children

Bone cancer in children is rare but often very aggressive. The most common types are osteosarcoma and Ewing sarcoma.
Early signs can easily be mistaken for growing pains or minor injuries, which is why awareness is so important.

🩶 Common signs to watch for:

Persistent pain in a limb or joint

Swelling or a noticeable lump

Fatigue and loss of appetite

Unexplained fractures or weakness in bones

Early diagnosis can save a life never ignore ongoing pain or swelling. Seek medical attention and insist on further tests if something doesn’t feel right.

Together, let’s raise awareness, offer support, and bring light to families walking this journey. 🌟

💜 For You, Shalom 💜
You are a masterpiece of strength and grace.
Keep shining, little warrior your courage lights up hearts and your smile gives hope to many.
May God’s peace, the very meaning of your name, continue to wrap around you like the color you love most purple. 💫💜

17/10/2025

🌟 Final Chapter – Awareness & Hope: Know the Truth About Hodgkin’s Lymphoma

After walking this long journey with my brother, one thing became clear awareness saves lives.
What started as a small, painless lump on his neck turned out to be Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, a type of blood cancer that many people know very little about.

So today, we share not just his story, but what every family needs to know. 💜

💜 What is Hodgkin’s Lymphoma?

Hodgkin’s Lymphoma (or Hodgkin’s Disease) is a type of cancer that begins in the lymphatic system the network that helps your body fight infections. It happens when certain white blood cells (lymphocytes) grow abnormally and spread through the lymph nodes, making it harder for the body to fight illness.

⚠️ Common Signs & Symptoms to Watch For:

These can start small and painless that’s why early awareness is so important.

Swollen lymph nodes (often in the neck, armpit, or groin) that don’t go away

Unexplained fatigue or weakness

Persistent fever or night sweats

Unexplained weight loss

Itchy skin or constant rash

Loss of appetite

Cough or chest pain (if lymph nodes in the chest are affected)

💭 If a lump appears and keeps coming back don’t ignore it. Get checked.

🔍 Possible Causes and Risk Factors:

There is no single known cause, but doctors believe certain factors can increase risk:

A weakened immune system

A history of Epstein-Barr virus (the virus that causes mononucleosis)

Family history of lymphoma

Age (most common in young adults and people over 55)

Exposure to certain chemicals

Remember having one or more of these factors does not mean you will get cancer, but awareness helps in early detection.

💊 Treatment Options:

Hodgkin’s Lymphoma is one of the most treatable cancers, even in later stages.
Treatment depends on the stage and overall health, but common options include:

Chemotherapy: Uses drugs to destroy cancer cells.

Radiation Therapy: Targets affected areas to stop cancer from spreading.

Immunotherapy: Helps the immune system fight cancer more effectively.

Stem Cell Transplant: In advanced cases, replaces damaged bone marrow with healthy cells.

💪 Many people go on to live long, healthy lives after treatment like my brother. His journey is proof that there is hope after diagnosis.

💫 A Message from Stargirl Light

To everyone reading this:
Don’t wait until pain becomes unbearable. Don’t assume it’s “just a muscle strain.” Early detection is everything.

We lost Stargirl Light to cancer, but through her memory and her uncle’s victory, we continue to shine a light so others can live. 🌈

💜 Cancer is not a death sentence. It’s a journey one that can end in healing, hope, and purpose.

💬 Takeaway:

Be aware. Be brave. Be hopeful.
Early checkups, emotional support, and faith can turn fear into victory.
Together, we can end the silence and fight cancer with knowledge and love.

🌟

15/10/2025

🌟 Part 6 – Victory and Gratitude

The day finally came the one I had prayed for through every moment of pain, fear, and sleepless night.
It was time for my final scan.

As I sat waiting for the results, my heart raced. I thought of every drip of chemo, every wave of nausea, every time I forced myself to smile when I was breaking inside. And then the doctor walked in, smiling.

He looked at me and said the words that will stay with me forever:

“You are cancer-free.”

For a moment, I couldn’t breathe. Tears filled my eyes but this time, they were tears of joy. I had made it. After all the pain, I was still standing.

I thanked God first for His mercy and strength that carried me when I could no longer carry myself. But deep in my heart, I also whispered:

“Thank you, Stargirl Light.” 💜

Even though she’s no longer here, I know she walked with me through it all. I felt her presence in my quiet moments, her voice reminding me to be strong, her light guiding me through every dark night.

When I wanted to give up, I thought of her fight, her courage, her smile and somehow, I found the strength to keep going.

So this victory isn’t mine alone. It belongs to her too my niece, my angel, my Stargirl Light. 🌟

“She may be gone from sight, but never from my heart.
Her love carried me through the storm and now, I stand in the light she left behind.”

Today, I share my story with pride, hope, and gratitude to remind anyone fighting right now:
You can survive. You can heal. You can live again. 💜

💬 Takeaway:

Survival isn’t just about living it’s about finding purpose after pain. It’s about honoring those who stood with you, even from heaven. Love never dies; it transforms into strength. 🌈

15/10/2025

14/10/2025

💔 My Journey with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma – Part 4

(This chapter is my personal experience)

Stigma, Struggles, and Silent Strength

During chemotherapy, I faced many challenges not only physical pain but also emotional and financial struggles.

There were days when I felt completely alone, misunderstood, and drained not just from the treatment, but from the world around me.

Every chemo session left me weak. I needed at least three to four days to rest and let the medication work through my body so I could regain strength. But rest wasn’t a luxury I could afford. If I stayed at home, there would be no income, and I still had to take care of myself and my children.

So, even when my body begged for rest, I forced myself to go to work.

At first, I thought my effort would be appreciated but it wasn’t.
My boss started talking behind my back, telling others that I was pretending that I didn’t really have cancer. Imagine hearing that when you’re fighting for your life.

One day, he even came to me and said, “Maybe you should stay at home until the chemo is done and come back after you’re better. The work is suffering because of your sickness.”

Those words broke me.
I expected understanding, not judgment.

But I also knew if I stayed at home, I wouldn’t be paid and each chemo session required money. So, I decided to stay strong. I began avoiding him, hiding my pain, and pretending to be fine just to keep my job.

It wasn’t easy, but it made me tougher. I told myself:

“If I can survive this kind of pain both inside and out nothing can break me again.”

That’s when I realized something powerful:

Stigma may isolate you, but it can also shape you into the strongest version of yourself.

So I kept going one chemo session, one day, one breath at a time.
And the journey continued... 💪.

Takeaway:
Not everyone will understand your battle, but your strength will speak louder than their doubt. Keep standing tall. 🙏💜