Global Center For Healing & Restoration

Global Center For Healing & Restoration Hope, Healing & Restoration! A therapeutic ministry of hope and restoration for those who have experienced hurt in churches and in relationships.

Helping them move forward in God's purpose for their lives! A therapeutic ministry of hope, healing and restoration for those who have experienced hurt in churches and in personal relationships. Helping them to move forward in God's purpose for their lives!

02/11/2025

Gossiping about others is a lose/lose situation. It hurts them, and then it hurts your reputation. And be careful how you accommodate those who gossip about other people to you because one day if they run out of whom to gossip about, you will become their next victim. Gossip that is a lie brings shame and disgrace because when people find out that you are a gossiper they will never trust you again and it means you have lost your integrity. Instead of gossiping about people do well to talk to them about what they are doing that isn't right. One of the identity of gossipers is that they tell you something and tell you not to tell anyone that it is a secret, if it is a secret why are they telling you especially when it doesn't concern you. Discuss issues that brings life and add value to your life not people.đŸ„‚

01/11/2025

What is the Love That Everyone is Looking For?

Love is positive thinking toward your partner. It’s not about your own happiness alone it’s about giving your happiness to your partner.

That’s why we say love is a verb. It’s an action. It’s not about what others should do for you; it starts with what you do.

Love cannot be judged by others because it begins in your own heart. If love is judged, the only person who can judge it is you.

To know if love exists, ask yourself:
~Do I have love within me?
~Am I thinking positively toward my partner?

When you cultivate love in yourself, you create a world filled with love. This attracts friends, relatives, and partners who also have love.

Many people fail to see love because their conscience or past experiences have driven them away from it. They look for love externally, but it begins internally. If you are surrounded by people without love, it’s hard to find love because you can only attract what you are yourself.

Love grows when you pour out what you have, even if it’s small. The truth is: you always reap what you sow. Cultivate love in your heart, and love will naturally surround you.

01/11/2025

Relationships Are Partnerships, Not Paychecks

Let me share something practical today. A relationship is like starting a small business together. Both of you bring something love, effort, time, ideas, or even money. You don’t just sit back and wait for the other person to do everything. No, you plan together, you dream together, and you work together. Each person may play a different role, but the goal is the same to grow and enjoy the results together.

When you start a business, no one gets a salary for doing their part. You build first, and when your business grows, you both share the fruits. That’s how relationships should be. In love, both people invest one may bring direction, the other wisdom, another patience, another support but it’s all for the same vision.

Yes, the man is called to be the head, which means he leads with love and care. But being a provider doesn’t mean he must always give money every day. It means he provides leadership, peace, and a plan for growth. The woman also provides love, wisdom, and support. Together, they create a strong home where both can find joy and progress.

Many problems come when people enter relationships expecting to receive instead of build. Love is not about saying, “What can I get?” It’s about asking, “What can we build together?” If you want to see blessings and peace, work together , even on small things. Maybe start a little project, plan your goals, and learn to grow as a team. The reward will come from what you create together.

A good woman is not just a helper; she is a builder. Her ideas, her care, and her strength make everything better. And a good man is not just a provider; he is a leader with a vision. When both of you understand your roles, there is peace, respect, and progress.

So, remember this: love is not a payment, it’s a partnership. The most beautiful relationships are not built on money, but on unity, effort, and purpose.

A MESSAGE TO THE SENIOR SINGLES...1. You are not incomplete or less blessed just because you are not married.2. Expect t...
31/10/2025

A MESSAGE TO THE SENIOR SINGLES...

1. You are not incomplete or less blessed just because you are not married.

2. Expect to be sidelined by some married people, some church congregants, by some in society even in work gatherings just because you are not married. Know yourself.

3. Expect some maried people to be defensive towards you, thinking you getting close will make them lose their spouse to you. You are not the problem, they are insecure.

4. If you have chosen to remain single for life, that is still OK. It is your personal choice.

5. If you have chosen to remain single for life, don't want marital benefits of s*x, exclusive companionship and leading people on. Choose. Do you want to be alone for life or do you want real love?

6. If you want real love, don't be desperate cause of fear of your age. Desperation will make you jump into one bad relationship after another, making you waste even more time.

7. Note that ma********on can easily make you need a human connection less and make you put less effort in building real emotional intimacy with a potential suitor because your self pleasure is your escape.

8. Don't be used by younger or older people who come to feel sorry for you and give you a fake idea of love to gain access to your body and money.

9. Network with other senior singles, they will understand your journey.

10. Look back and see your past love life choices. Have you been entertaining the wrong people, ignoring red flags, loving the wrong people the right way? Learn.

11. You may be desiring love so much but don't get too excited when someone new gives you attention. Tame your expectations. Discern.

12. When you do find someone real and true and who is serious about you, be loveable, let your guard down. Yes, you have been single and independent for a while but allow yourself to need someone. Love is finally here.

13. If you have never known love, remember love exists.

14. Don't feel sorry for yourself, drinking yourself silly, having sleepless nights and developing ulcers; this will make you unattractive and emotionally difficult to be with thus pushing people further away from you.

15. Learn to stand your ground when your parents and relatives pressure you into marriage. Don't get married for them.

16. The more you age as you approach your mid-life, the more s*xually aggressive and assertive you will become. Make wise s*xual choices.

17. Don't put your life on hold just because you don't have a spouse. Invest, build your empire, travel, get that PhD, form your organisation, touch lives; live to the max.

18. As you grow, your need for companionship will grow. Don't give audience to time wasters, you are too grown for games and for married people who want to cheat on their spouse's with you.

19. If you are a single parent, remember your children will move out soon. Prepare for life after they move out.

31/10/2025

A mistake is an accident. Cheating and lying are not mistakes. They are intentional choices. Stop hiding behind the words “mistake” and “sorry” and stop putting up with those who do. A lot of us blackmail others emotionally to keep them as slaves of our selfish interest. They hurt you and promise never to do such again but because they have found out your weakness in always accepting their apologies because of the love you have for them, they will begin to manipulate you with "I am sorry" "It is a mistake" someone who lies and cheats have it all planned out before executing so beware and don't be fooled by their unrepentant attitude. Allow peoples actions towards you expose who they are to you and not just by what they say.😉

27/10/2025

The healthiest relationships are comprised of two people who are intimately familiar with each other’s evolving stories. These people make plenty of emotional room for their relationship, which means they sincerely listen to each other, understand each other, respect each other, motivate each and see each other as a team. They remember the major events each other have been through, pains, anniversaries, and birthdays and they keep up-to-date as the facts and feelings of each other’s reality changes. They respect each others emotional and professional boundaries and keep no destructive secrets from each other. They become the ideal soulmate to each other.💓

24/10/2025

If you can’t say it to their face, you shouldn’t say it behind their back. As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds discuss people.” Life is much too short to waste talking about people, gossiping, and stirring up trouble that has no substance. If you don’t know, ask. If you don’t agree, say so. If you don’t like it, speak up. But never judge people behind their back and stop spoiling people's names to win cheap favor and popularity. Be careful with someone who gossip about others to you because same person will gossip about you to other people. đŸ€”

24/10/2025

Most of us might think we are free but unfortunately we are slaves to a lot of inner negative forces in our lives that hold us captives. This inner slavery has a tyrannical grip on all of us. The inner slavery of fear, anxiety, addiction, jealousy, lust, hate, anger, blind ambition, prejudice, violence, abuse, procrastination, lies, dishonesty, empty pride, drunkenness for power, selfishness, corruption, tribalism, ethnicity and countless other chains hold us in bo***ge unfortunately each and everyone of us is a slave to one or more of these vices. We are enslaved by whatever negative power grips our hearts, preventing us from becoming fully who we are suppose to be. Unless we make conscious efforts to be free of these negative elements in our lives that holds us captives, we shall never find peace and authentic happiness. 😇.

14/10/2025

The people I have been trying to understand are those who gossip and talk bad about someone who at one point or the other had been nice to them and helped them. You don't need to talk ill of someone or damage their image to another person you are seeking favor from or whom you want to be friend with. Be careful with those who tell you about others to win your favor and become friends with you, when things go bad between you and them they will surely tell their new friend about you, it is in bringing others down that they rise and feel important. You can cut off from people without spoiling their name or turning the heart of people against them or trying to tarnish their image to score cheap points. It is called maturity.😞

14/10/2025

If you’re disappointed with yourself or frustrated with someone else, the answer is not to take it out on the world around you. Retribution, whether it’s focused on yourself or others, brings zero value into your life. The way beyond the pain from the past is not with vengeance, mockery, bullying or retaliation, but with present love. ❀

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