05/10/2024
"Making your parents proud"
A lot of us are pursing careers and courses(if you are in school) with the idea of "making our parents proud of us".
I never ha e done before, saying "one day I will make my parents proud" is not something I have ever had my mind on because my mum and dad once told me, you don't need to make me proud, I'm proud of you just for you being my daughter. I really don't have to do anything at allπ, but I do things, I go above and beyond, for myself.
You see trying so hard to gain approval by making someone proud of you is stress, on you and your mental health.
Because, what if you don't achieve anything meaningful to your parents? Then what? They are not proud of you? Why? .....
If aiming for your parents approval is what you want, please go ahead, but just know that, we really don't need anyone's thumbs up for obtaining what society is saying as to be as a great achievement.
So, please, make your choices, do what you can to survive this world, and if anyone hasn't told you this...please hear it from me I AM PROUD OF YOU!! I'm proud of the big and small choices you have made for yourself and by yourself, I'm proud that you are managing even if things are hard, I'm proud, that you are trying.