Did you see my last post? I talked briefly about how much my business has changed as I now do all my healings on line and my clients are still getting incredible results! Of course! Kinesiology is so powerful!
“But how does Kinesiology work on line?”
The simple answer is, we are all just energy and as healers we can work with the energy at a distance to unblock it and allow it to flow again, this is also backed by science. A famous quote from Albert Einstein sums it up beautifully;
“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”
❤ Tara
Wheel of Life
Are you ready to bring in the changes you truly desire?
How many times have you said you would do something or quit something to then find yourself automatically in the exact same situation again and again. Why do we do this?
This is called a (subconscious) sabotage program and it’s stopping us from moving forward in the direction we (consciously) desire.
As previously mentioned, Kinesiology bypasses the conscious mind (who we think we are) to access the deep subconscious mind (who we really are) to see where you are out of alignment. Ideally we want the subconscious mind to be congruent with our conscious desirers.
Have you ever said to yourself, “I will wake in the morning and exercise”, then find yourself waking with a million excuses as to why today’s not the day to start? This is a perfect example of a sabotage program! Not only does this program take you further away from your goals and what you truly desire, but it also brings on feelings of guilt, disappointment, shame, frustration and a lack of trust towards yourself and we DO NOT want this to be our daily self-talk.
By connecting in with all areas of your life and assessing how satisfied you are (or not) allows in a deeper connection, understanding and perspective to what’s really going on for you. With this clarity you can start to make the necessary changes allowing you to reach your goals and full potential. In the next couple of days I will post an image of the wheel and more info to help you with this process. For now make a start by listing all the things in your life. Get creative, the more pieces the more perspective you will have. Here’s a few examples of what your wheel/pie pieces could be:
Career, Finances, relationships, intimate relationship, living situation, friends, fun/adventure, health etc.
Have fun with this process, good luck!
Love Tara xx
Power of Words
Have you ever considered how powerful your language can be on your thoughts, feelings and emotions? Have you ever noticed how some words make you feel relaxed, calm and at peace and others can bring on stress, anxiety and overwhelm?
"Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble." -unknown
It is so important to be mindful of the language we use, especially the words “need” and “want”. As expressed in my video these words create very different emotions in the body.
When we change our language we change our life.
Did you do the “need” list and then the “want” list? What did you notice in yourself? Did you now feel different about the situations? What emotions came when you changed your language to “want”?
Now cultivate more of these positive emotion by relinquishing the power and control you think is outside of you allowing you to connect in with your own power and strength.
If you need help with this, I’m here for you.
Sending love,
Tara xx
Have you ever had a reoccurring injury or pain in your body that doesn’t seem to go away?
Throughout our lives we will always have pain, discomfort or sensations in our bodies that demand our attention. Have you ever thought that maybe these aches and pains are ways your body is trying to communicate with you that something is not right? That maybe something internally or externally is out of balance? As I explained in my video, different parts of the body can relate to certain emotions/feeling so to understand these messages means we can connect in more deeply with who we are and what we are experiencing to make the changes that bring in more peace, happiness and lightness.
Let’s connect in now. Do you have pain in these areas? Can you relate to these emotions/feelings?
Head: overthinking, disconnection to higher self
Neck: rigid, stiff, inflexible, stubborn
Shoulders: burdened, carrying the weight of the world
Arms: what you cannot embrace, your inability to do something
Hands: how are you handling things, what are you still holding on to
Chest: issues of the heart, heartbroken, denying love
Back: unsupported, your past “stuff”
Genitals: shame, guilt, disgust, dissatisfaction
Hips: how you hold yourself in the world
Legs: where you are taking yourself
Knees: not flowing forward, unable to bend to progress forward
Ankles: movement forward and direction
Feet: direction, imbalanced/lack of understanding your past, present and future
How did you go? Did you connect in and get some clarity on what may be going on for you?
DM, I would love to hear what came up for you.
Love Tara xx
Connecting Into Your Emotions
Connecting Into Your Emotions
One phrase I continuously use in my clinic is “treat yourself like your own best friend”, this is especially true when it comes to connecting in with your emotions.
Imagine this, your friend is having a bad day and is feeling extremely distressed and overwhelmed and asked if he/she could talk to you about it…would you be available and present with this friend and listen with unconditional love, compassion and understanding? Or would you say you don’t have time and can’t be bothered with their drama and emotions right now and that you would rather do anything else than hear what they had to say? 🥴
I’m pretty certain you would never say the second statement. I’m sure you are a loving and supportive friend who always allows time and space for loved ones to vent, let off steam, acknowledge their emotions and what they are feeling in their body all with loving presence. So then why can’t we do this for ourselves too when we need it?
How often do you allow time and space to truly explore all of your emotions, how these emotions feel in your body and where they are coming from?
So many of us (including myself, before seeing a Kinesiologist 15 years ago) do everything in our power to avoid the “uncomfortable” or “painful” emotions. We do this through busyness, work, alcohol, drugs, sex, pharmaceuticals, social media, television, kids and family.
We need to start treating ourselves like our own best friend by connecting in to hear what’s really going on to move through the emotion.
Here are a few simple steps to connecting in and befriending your emotions:
•Create time and space alone
•Be still and explore the emotion
•When you name the emotion just sit with it and welcome it with curiosity and without judgement
•Tune in. Where do you feel this emotion in your body?
•Describe the feeling or sensation in your body
•If you could give this emotion/sensation an age/time you experienced t
EFT & NLP
Whenever I am feeling stressed, overwhelmed, anxious or ungrounded I use these simple techniques to bring me back to harmony. I have been using EFT and NLP in my clinic for over 10 years now and they are extremely powerful. All my clients are shocked at how quickly they move through their emotions when using these simple tools. Give them a go when you need a little pick me up or clearing!
First connect in with how you are feeling and give yourself a score out of 10. So, 10/10 would be extremely stressed/anxious and 0/10 would be calm/relaxed. Then after doing your tapping and eye rotations connect in again to see how you are feeling. Do you notice anything different in your emotions? You can change up your emotions every time to suit what your feeling, but just use the simplified wording below: "Today I choose to bring in more peace, calm, happiness and joy” (eyes open and rotating). “Today I choose to let go of stress, anxiety, anger and frustration” (eyes closed and rotating). Do the above whilst tapping on your upper lip in the centre.
Would love to hear how you went with the above.
Happy clearing!
Love Tara xx
Comfort Zone
Have you ever noticed that as we get older we get more stuck in our ways? Why do we do this? Is it to stay safe? Do we feel we are too old to interact with life now? We can’t be bothered or we are too scared to shake things up? We would feel judged by others? Or feel unworthy of living “that” life?
I really noticed how much I just wanted to stay safe and in my comfort zone over the past few years with all the trauma I experienced, as I felt like my world was falling apart, so to control everything was one way of staying safe! However, I was so wrong!!
Getting out of my comfort zone and relinquishing control has helped me to realise how free, strong, powerful and confident I truly am and also that life was not this big scary place I imagined it to be, it was a space to explore my humanness, my emotional landscape and be a part of this magical existence.
Remember balance is key here, staying safe 100% of the time with no risk taking does not equal happiness! It takes it away!
Love Tara xx
The Silver Lining of C0VID-19
The Silver Lining of C0VID-19.
I truly believe that there is a silver lining to our current circumstances that I wanted to shine some light on.
What if this was a time to go within, to connect in with yourself and others in a different way.
Something I always teach in my clinic is how to prioritise connecting in with yourself, loving yourself deeply, honouring yourself and striving to be your own best friend every single day.
Imagine if this time gave you permission to slow down and see what is really important in your life.
What if this time created a movement of human beings who learned how to take proper care of their physical bodies, address and optimise their environments by reducing EMFs (turning off the WiFi at night, reducing phone/screen times, not wearing apple watches/fitness trackers), removing toxic food/drinks and toxic people from their life.
I want you to live a life overflowing with love, not fear. I want you to connect into your abundance and focus on having gratitude for what you have in your life. This will allow in more positivity and optimism.
It's important to know that when you take care of yourself and come from a space of love rather than a space of fear you strengthen your immune system, and when you strengthen your immune system you can effortlessly ward off disease causing pathogens.
If there is one action you can take from this post today, please share acts of loving kindness to yourself and others in your community. Smile (under your mask and with your eyes) and say hello to people you pass, we are all going through so much right now and feel so isolated in our fears. A friendly face/hello could make someone’s day.
Just remember that we are all in this together.
With love, Tara xx
ATTRACTING IN ABUNDANCE, MONEY & LOVE
ATTRACTING IN ABUNDANCE, MONEY & LOVE
On a conscious level do you want to call in your perfect partner, money or abundance in your life?
On a conscious level do you think you are ready to bring this in?
In Kinesiology we look beyond the conscious beliefs and get deep into the subconscious ones (which is who you really are and what you’re really feeling!). We may find that you do not feel lovable, worthy, enough or special creating blocks that are preventing you from reaching your goals and attracting in what you really want in your life.
Every time I do a money balance with a client, they have a block! It is common for them to believe that attracting in what they truly desire is impossible and unattainable.
Have you ever connected in and explored what your current relationship is with abundance, money and relationships? Does thinking about them make you feel anxious, nervous or unworthy?
When I started working on my abundance I had to first let go of how I actually felt about money (I didn’t even realised these old programs were there!) When exploring my relationship to money I realised that I had never felt comfortable with having it so I always had to get rid of it and spend it as I felt like someone might steal it or I could lose it!
Once I cleared this belief, I felt worthy of having money and abundance. It then felt safe for me to accumulate money! I am so grateful for this clearing as this one goal has changed my whole life on so many levels!
We can also look at relationships the same way! How do you really feel about meeting the man/woman of your dreams? Finally connecting with your soul mate? Please be honest with yourself as our ego will go straight into “yes bring them in now!” But are you really ready for that person? Do you feel overwhelmed? Nervous? Scared? Not “something” enough? This is where Kinesiology can help!
We find all those hidden limiting beliefs, thoughts and insecurities that hold us back from moving forward and reachi
SELF LOVE, SELF WORTH & SELF RESPECT
SELF LOVE, SELF WORTH & SELF RESPECT
In Kinesiology we work on connecting into self love, self worth and self respect to transform your life. It truly always comes back to loving yourself first.
Do you treat yourself with love, kindness care and nurture?
Are you able to tune into your abundance and feel worthy of love and success?
Do you have self respect or do you routinely put others before yourself and struggle to set healthy boundaries?
Do you treat yourself as you would your best friend? With kindness and unconditional love?
Too often I see clients struggling with finances, relationships and their health due to not feeling connected with themselves and forgetting to love the most important person in their life, themselves! We really need to put ourselves first, if we are not there for ourselves, we can’t be there for others.
Hands up if you relate to this? This was definitely me pre-Kinesiology days, until I learnt to really love myself (in all of my imperfections) and learn to express clear and healthy boundaries to others.
WHAT IS KINESIOLOGY
WHAT IS KINESIOLOGY?
Kinesiology (kin-easy-ology) is a non-invasive natural therapy that uses muscle testing to find and correct imbalances in the body to bring it back to its natural state of harmony. Unlike other modalities, Kinesiology uses powerful techniques that bypass the conscious mind (who we “think” we are), allowing the client to access deep hidden subconscious beliefs and programming that may be limiting and causing issues. We function from our subconscious mind (who we really are) 95% of the time, which means that when we are tired, stressed and in autopilot, we run from these programs, so if our beliefs are not in line with where we want to be, this makes life challenging and extremely painful. Wouldn’t it be amazing if you could be the best version of yourself 95% of the time? Kinesiology allows you to make these changes so you can start achieving your goals and be the best version of yourself every day!
What Can Kinesiology Do For Me?
Kinesiology will help you move forward in your life reaching your goals and full potential and become the best version of you! It’s a non-invasive natural therapy that will bring your body, mind (mental/emotional) and spirit into balance so you can make decisions with clarity and ease, approach your goals with confidence and live life to the fullest with optimum health, energy and vitality. It’s a holistic approach that assesses the person as a whole. This means I take into consideration your physical, mental, emotional, biochemical, spiritual and social states to bring your body back to its natural state of harmony.
Through the use of a powerful combination of Western and Eastern Medicine, I can help you tap into the root cause of illness and issues, clear self-sabotaging blockages and set goals and affirmations that will empower you to make lasting positive changes to your life.
FEELING TRIGGERED? What is this telling you? When we get triggered by someone or something we need to put up that mirror and see what this person is reflecting in you!
Does this trigger provoke anger, jealousy, fear, pain, abandonment, feeling unloved, not worthy or not special in you? This is a perfect opportunity to see what’s really going on for you and for personal transformation and growth.
If you feel that people have crossed the line with your boundaries then it’s also important to speak your truth without being reactive and coming from a place of how YOU feel and what YOU want and what YOU are willing to do in this situation.