OUR FOCUS: ON RESOLUTION...
based on the principle of self-determination
with a focus on children's interests
at a comfortable pace
in a voluntary process.
— Dictionary
WHAT IS MEDIATION AND WHY USE IT?
Mediation is essentially a "dialogue". The participants in that dialogue are the parties to a dispute (either individuals, groups or other entities) and the mediator, who moderates their discussion, based on unique skills.
The shared goal of the mediation participants is resolution. The mediator is there to help, in a neutral role.
The principle of self-determination is fundamental to the mediation process. Each party's views and concerns are heard and respected. The process is designed to explore and, hopefully, address the very foundation of the conflict, so lasting solutions can be achieved.
I am AJ Jakubowska, a family law mediator and lawyer.
I have 23 years of experience in the field of family law, both in the context of Alternative Dispute Resolution (of which mediation is a part) and litigation.
I am a strong proponent of mediation as a method of resolving family law disputes. In many cases, it is preferable to litigation and can produce solutions which are more-sustainable in the long-term.