27/12/2025
Someone messaged me recently:
“I have two kids.
I want a white man.
Do you think I still stand a chance?”
Let me say this gently but clearly…
Who told you that being divorced, widowed, or a parent means you don’t deserve love again?
Love didn’t expire because your first story didn’t work.
You are not “damaged goods.”
You are not less valuable.
You are not disqualified.
The real battle is not outside it’s in your mind.
If you believe,
“I’m finished… nobody will want me,”
you will show up that way.
But when you believe,
“I still deserve love. I am worth choosing,”
everything changes.
I’ve seen single parents find love.
I’ve seen people remarry happily.
I’ve seen new beginnings after heartbreak.
So please work on your heart first.
Heal.
Release shame.
And be open to being loved again.
If you’re ready to try again not in fear, but in faith send a DM. We’ll walk the journey with you. 💛
Gracious Matchmaking