27/01/2026
This is my father at 80 - still checking his list, still remembering everyone’s birthday, still showing up for people the way he always has.
My grandfather Apu Selo gave everything away. My father Bah did the same - left for Saudi when I was six, became a public servant who couldn’t stay silent against corruption, spoke truth even when it hurt his throat to do so.
I followed this legacy blindly until I learned: giving from overflow is sustainable. Giving from depletion is not.
Bah, you’ve given so much. Some remember, some forget. But I see you.
At 80, you don’t need another purpose. You’ve proven your worth a thousand times over.
Now it’s time to simply live. To receive. To let life spoil you for once.
Thank you for all your love, your support, your thoughtfulness. You taught me how to love by loving so completely.
Happy 80th birthday, my dear father. You deserve every bit of this celebration.
With all my love, Kends