08/12/2025
Soft girl era? dumb. Hear me out…
Ladies keep throwing around “soft girl era” like it’s some enlightened feminine awakening. But because i like to keep s**t real… it’s mostly an aesthetic.
Pastels, bows, matcha, slow mornings, whisper-voices, and pretending you’re never bothered by anything.
Cute? Sure
Real? Not for most women I work with.
Trendy? Definately 🙄
But here’s the truth from where I stand. Soft is totally beautiful… when it’s honest.
What I can’t stand is faking it for a trend. Or to prove something that isn’t true. You know what I’m talking about… curated gentle living.
The “I don’t stress, I just glow” energy that falls apart the second real life hits. It’s lies that are infiltrating the internet.
Why not be real? Be direct? Have opinions? Lead with love and authenticity? AND STAND IN IT!
Bitch. You don’t need matcha and a mood board to be feminine.
You need presence, truth, and the courage to stop shrinking.
I’m here for the women who want both
the heart and the backbone
the softness and the clarity
the compassion and the boundary.
Why would you want to lose yourself to a trend?
If you want to lead with depth and authenticiy instead of aesthetics.
If you want grounded confidence, instead of curated calm (lol)
If you want to be real instead of fake cute…. then stick around. You’re in the right place.
