Reinvent yourself with Quyen.

Reinvent yourself with Quyen. Helping people in and after toxic relationships to heal, find themselves, reinvent themselves and their life..

"Everything we want is already here"
Love, relationships, self worth, human potential, abundant and prosper life.

One of the best chapter of my life. Some of the best people I have known. Like a magical garden, i will not forget: the ...
16/07/2025

One of the best chapter of my life. Some of the best people I have known. Like a magical garden, i will not forget: the guardians, the little angels, the blessings, the beauties, the love, the experience and the wisdom- i shall bring it with me. It's like a flower that bloom in my heart.

Totally killed it and "berries" it!!! ..WILDLY!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣     😊
17/01/2024

Totally killed it and "berries" it!!! ..
WILDLY!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣



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We often find ourselves swamped in life rather than living it.Have you ever ask yourself what else after 100 years? By t...
15/01/2024

We often find ourselves swamped in life rather than living it.

Have you ever ask yourself what else after 100 years? By then everything that's wvee matter to us- our family, friends, possessions... Probably wouldn't matter anymore.

A reminder for the new year to not forget to take good care of the most important thing that make life matter: Yourself.

You are like that plant, need to be nurtured, loved and cared for to be happy.



Hello my big family, I have been too busy and haven't post for a long time. Today is a special day, I would like to shar...
04/12/2022

Hello my big family, I have been too busy and haven't post for a long time.
Today is a special day, I would like to share an amazing news with everyone: My business "REINVENT YOURSELF WITH QUYEN" got nominated for South Australia Community Award. 🎉🎉🎉
With gratitude, I would like to say thank you for this honour.
This wasn't an easy journey but it all worth it. I started this because I went through a time when I realised how much childhood traumas and cultural conditioning affect one as an adult.
I am deeply grateful for everything that I've been through to become the person I am today, and I am still reinventing myself- every moment- I still trying to see what's in me.
I have witnessed the miracle happened for me , NOW I WANT THE SAME FOR YOU AND MORE.
I wish to always improving myself to be able to contribute better service.

With deepest gratitude
Quyen Pham.




24/04/2022

He is the treatment you and your children got, and before you- His children had.

Stop dreaming about the unreal transactional acts he put up to keep you being good to him. That was never love you for you, but to prove his greatness and secure his supply.


20/04/2022

False belief: "women with the purest heqrt is the unluckiest in love".

Truth: you have a choice, use your power. if you believe it, you will forever struggling in love, unconciously fixing your eyes on the one who forever make you suffer.

Making people suffer is "his" nature, it gives him pleasure.

Suffering give you validations for your belief in your worth in purest love.

End your struggles.

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16/04/2022

❓What to do when my girl friend keep hitting on my boyfriend❓
Short answer: ASSESS YOURSELF, NOT HIM.
Believe it or not, the question is not so much about him, but about your level of self- awareness and people-awareness.

Why you asked?
💯 A healthy man respect and honour people- his girlfriend, the other friend- just like how he RESPECT himself.

✅ It mean he know and honour himself, his values, his FEELING+ REASON+ DECISION on why he chooses someone to be his girlfriend, as well as the other friend.
❗IF YOUR MAN HAS ISSUE PROTECTING YOU AND SHOW YOU OFF IN FRONT OF THE WORLD:

🙄 It does not necessarily mean he is a bad person(tho he can be. But if he is not)

🙂👍IT DOES MEAN HE HAS ISSUE(S) TO RESOLVE.
💥Don't worry, it get worst.

⁉️Ask yourself what is your belief system that you accept those kind of treatment❓
Do you think princess Dianna, Angelina Jolie, Madonna, Beyonce, Ariana Grande, Selena Gomez to name a few... They would accept those kind of treatment❓

⁉️ Do you think you have something to resolve within yourself too❓
💟 You can not and are not responsible for someone else's being, you can only and are responsible for your own. And if you must work on yourself first before a relationship, you must.

THE HEALTHIER AND MORE GROWTH YOU ARE, THE BETTER PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS YOU ATTRACT INTO YOUR LIFE.

Do yourself a favour: SAVE YOURSELF FIRST.


💟 When we want a new way of life, we can not live the old ways. ✅ Most people don't have problem comprehensing this, the...
12/04/2022

💟 When we want a new way of life, we can not live the old ways.
✅ Most people don't have problem comprehensing this, they have problem being at peace with themselves LIVING IT.
For example:

👨👨‍💼👴Men: "Man is also human, we should be able to express ourselves too"...
but he himself is suppressed in the old fear:
" I'm a man, no one care".
" I'm a man, can't be judge being weak"....

👩👩‍💼👵Women:"I'm a woman of the new age, I deserve my own success and independence"...
But here it come, the croacky voice of decades in her head:
"I need a man" because" I need love".

💥DAMN!!
💥HECK NO!!

💪PEOPLE DO CARE FOR MEN!
💪PEOPLE DO UNDERSTAND!
💯I KNOW I DO🔥

🙅‍♀️❌WOMAN DON'T NEED A MAN TO HAVE LOVE.
👍EACH HUMAN IS LOVED AND FULLY AS HIM/ HERSELF.

❓Then what's wrong with the beliefs❓

Thousands of years of imbalance gender roles conditioning, as a result creating rediculous expectations for both genders in a very distructive way- which in turn suppressing both genders.

⚠️AT THE SAME TIME⚠️
Create unreal distorted stigmatised views and expectations between the opposite sexes towards each other.

🤔🌱The way out⁉️
It's simpler than most people think, even if it does require some work: RECONDITIONING YOURSELF.
Allow yourself to go deeper inside, uncover the layers of broken beliefs, release them - let them go, be open to accept and to be accepted by others. (You may or may not need professional help on the way of reconditioning yourself, depends, however it's a different topic.)

But if we can be honest with ourselves‼️
🧘🏼‍♂️🧘🧘🏻‍♀️ We'll see the connections with people and the world happen when we fully accept, love and connect first with our bare selves.

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There was once a broken picture, the man asked his young son to put the picture back together. The son did it so fast, his father asked "how?", he answered:

"There's a man behind the picture, I just put the man together and the picture became together."

A surprise hug from the father, he said to his son:

"That's right son, when the man is together, his world is together"

10/04/2022

Each of us IS A CENTER IN THIS UNIVERSE.
We had the ideas and knowledge to do something, we execute the ideas, we being the work to this world with our hands. That's how this world was built.

When we know who we are, what we want to do in life, we recognise people are a part of our journey - who are also on their journeys.

We bless them and move on, concentrating on working our purpose.

As we are at peace with ourselves, we are at peace with the world.

So where do you want to head in life?

10/04/2022

The adult no matter if he is 20 or 40 or 60 or more, who got abused by his parents, said "I understand their life was too hard" and refuse to admit they did it bad.
👉He is still seeing them as a parents, himself as a child, still depend on them, still want the parents he never had.

💥A child who knows nothing needs his parents to be right, because he needs to learn the world from them. A 60 years old doesn't need that, he have the ability to understand many adults are not always right.

He needs to realise he is an adult now, he has his choices to lead his life, so his mother.
IF HE knew the pains and WOULD NOT MAKE THE CHOICES to abuse his children like HIS PARENTS, why excuse them?

He needs to hold his parents accountable for their actions, or he will forever see himself as the failure.

Understanding why they were the way they were, doesn't make his suffering lighter, doesn't justify the abuse.

YOU CAN BE OUT OF YOUR TOXIC ENVIRONMENT FOR LONG PHYSICALLY, still imprisoned by its effects mentally.
Until you decide to face the truth, step up
For yourself, and step in to healing work.

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 WHY GENERATIONAL ABUSE CONTINUE AND YOUR OWN HEALING:1️⃣ Family can be the ones who abuse you the most and get ...
03/04/2022

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 WHY GENERATIONAL ABUSE CONTINUE AND YOUR OWN HEALING:

1️⃣ Family can be the ones who abuse you the most and get away easiest because people don't dare to dip into " your family's business",
and it's all behind the scenes.

2️⃣ You can be blind to it OR try to excuse them:
Understanding why your abusive family member is the way he/ she is DOES NOT MAKE THE ABUSE easier on you nor IS THE REASON TO justify the abuse.

3️⃣ Waking up on your own is scary, you will try to wake someone up with you, they may not understand, you can go through a lot of internal fights and external conflicts....

👉👉That's when one have to make decision to step up and step out or close his/ her eyes and step back in.
💥💥The truth is💥💥
✅ You are a human who have a choice, just like they do.

✅ You have to help yourself first, claim your freedom FOR YOURSELF, the world will understand.

🚫❌Stop paying your life for someone else decision, safe yourself and your next generations.

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