17/06/2024
One of the biggest challenges for a man is understanding how to meet his partner's emotional needs and make her feel safe enough to open up and share herself fully.
To address this, a man must practice being fully present with her: emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. Men often struggle with this because we tend to learn through action, making it hard for us to simply sit still and listen without trying to fix things.
As men, we are naturally solution-focused. We use our minds to understand problems and then resolve them. However, when we start thinking of solutions, we get caught up in our heads, disconnecting emotionally. We stop being present and fail to listen empathetically.
Empathy means feeling in your heart what the other person feels and not being afraid of how it will affect you. If your partner feels scared, insecure, angry, or sad, don’t withdraw because you fear those emotions might make you feel weak or uncomfortable. Instead, embrace those feelings and share the experience with her.
Share her tears, or at least hold space for them. Comfort her, make an energetic connection, so she knows you are truly with her. Let her feel safe in your arms, knowing she doesn’t have to face things alone.
Imagine pouring your masculine energy into her through your touch, eyes, voice, and heart. Visualize this energy soothing and comforting her, providing her with inner peace through your strength and confidence.
Think about what your love will do for her in these moments. Consider the enormous confidence you build in your relationship by being her safe place. Your presence becomes both her hiding place and her harbor.
