Melissa Howie Consulting

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๐Ÿ“ South Australian psychotherapist working with individuals, families & children
๐Ÿ“š Advanced certified schema therapist, healing the origins of your schemas
๐Ÿ‘๏ธ EMDR therapist helping you process trauma
๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ Find your improved potential!

In Schema Therapy, the 'inner child' reflects the vulnerable parts of us shaped by early experiences where important emo...
21/01/2026

In Schema Therapy, the 'inner child' reflects the vulnerable parts of us shaped by early experiences where important emotional needs werenโ€™t fully met โ€” such as safety, love, or validation. These parts may still carry fear, shame, or a sense of being unseen.

To cope, we often develop protective patterns like emotional withdrawal, self-criticism, or shutting down. While these responses once helped us survive, they can keep us feeling stuck or disconnected. ๐Ÿ’”

Healing begins when the adult self learns to respond differently โ€” with compassion, care, and consistency. This process, often called reparenting, supports the shift from surviving to healing, helping us move from wounded to whole. โค๏ธ

Hello 2026! ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿผ New year, new possibilities.I'm a skilled psychotherapist with over 25 years' experience โ€” supporting ind...
15/01/2026

Hello 2026! ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿผ New year, new possibilities.

I'm a skilled psychotherapist with over 25 years' experience โ€” supporting individuals in reconnecting with their strengths, gaining clarity, and moving forward from patterns that they may have felt stuck in for years. โœจ

As an Advanced Certified Schema Therapist, my work focuses on healing the origins of schemas and helping you meet your emotional needs in healthier, more fulfilling ways. I also use EMDR Therapy to treat a range of mental health concerns linked to traumatic or adverse life experiences.

Iโ€™m passionate about supporting you to discover your improved potential and take confident steps on your journey to healing. ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

Learn more about my services: https://bit.ly/3UQ0MRN

Some Friday wisdom to carry you into the weekend ๐Ÿ’—If youโ€™re on your path to wellness, take a moment to appreciate the jo...
09/01/2026

Some Friday wisdom to carry you into the weekend ๐Ÿ’—

If youโ€™re on your path to wellness, take a moment to appreciate the journey, not just the destination. Mental health is a process, and every small step forward is worth celebrating. ๐Ÿชœโœจ

โœจ New Year = New Mindset โœจYour only competition is who you were yesterday.As you step into 2026, focus on small, intenti...
04/01/2026

โœจ New Year = New Mindset โœจ

Your only competition is who you were yesterday.

As you step into 2026, focus on small, intentional changes โ€” not comparison. ๐ŸŒฑ Progress doesnโ€™t have to be loud or fast to be meaningful.

New Yearโ€™s resolutions arenโ€™t about perfection or big, overwhelming goals. Theyโ€™re about gentle mindset shifts that support healthier habits and a more fulfilling life. Every day is an opportunity to begin again, and small steps toward improving your mental wellbeing can create lasting change. ๐Ÿ’ซ

If youโ€™re curious about whether Schema Therapy or EMDR Therapy could support you, feel free to DM me to explore your options with Melissa Howie Consulting.

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! ๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ…๐Ÿผ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽŠThe team at Melissa Howie Consulting hope you have a beauti...
25/12/2025

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! ๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ…๐Ÿผ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽŠ

The team at Melissa Howie Consulting hope you have a beautiful festive season filled with love, laughter, and cheer.๐Ÿ’•

For some people, Christmas feels light, connected and full โ€” a season of tradition, shared meals, and celebration. ๐Ÿ’– For...
21/12/2025

For some people, Christmas feels light, connected and full โ€” a season of tradition, shared meals, and celebration. ๐Ÿ’– For others, it can feel heavy, demanding or emotionally complex. ๐Ÿ‘Ž

The end of the year often brings added pressure, disrupted routines and heightened expectations, which can stir up stress, loneliness or anxiety. For many, itโ€™s not the festivities themselves, but what they represent โ€” relationships, loss, change or reflection โ€” that feels challenging.

You might notice yourself:
๐Ÿ‘‰ Feeling overwhelmed by social demands or expectations
๐Ÿ‘‰ Struggling with a sense of disconnection while others appear to be enjoying themselves
๐Ÿ‘‰ Comparing your experience to idealised versions of Christmas and feeling disappointed or 'out of step'
๐Ÿ‘‰ Finding comfort in the lead-up, then experiencing a dip once itโ€™s all over
๐Ÿ‘‰ Being drawn into memories of loss, unresolved experiences, or worries about the year ahead

If Christmas is a difficult time for you, it's important to remember that you are not alone. Take care of yourself, know it's ok to do things differently and, most importantly, don't be afraid to ask for help.

That's a wrap for Melissa Howie Consulting for 2025! ๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ””๐Ÿพ๐Ÿฅ‚We are officially closed for the remainder of the year, and lo...
19/12/2025

That's a wrap for Melissa Howie Consulting for 2025! ๐ŸŽ…๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ””๐Ÿพ๐Ÿฅ‚

We are officially closed for the remainder of the year, and look forward to being back in the Good Hub again in late January. โ˜€๏ธ We wish you and your loved ones all the best for a safe and peaceful Christmas and a New Year of happiness.

It's important to remember that if you are struggling over the holiday season, you can reach out for support. ๐Ÿค— A number of support services are available to assist: https://bit.ly/3Dhryx0

๐—•๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐ŸŽDuring the festive season, boundaries can matter more than ever.Christmas often comes w...
18/12/2025

๐—•๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐ŸŽ

During the festive season, boundaries can matter more than ever.

Christmas often comes with unspoken expectations โ€” where youโ€™ll be, who youโ€™ll see, and how much of yourself youโ€™re expected to give. In the midst of it all, itโ€™s easy to forget that saying 'no' is a complete sentence. โŒ

Protecting your time, energy and emotional wellbeing isnโ€™t selfish, itโ€™s healthy.
And sometimes, the kindest gift you can give yourself this Christmas is a boundary.

What parents canโ€™t heal, children inherit. ๐Ÿ’” When a parent shuts down, reacts strongly, or canโ€™t connect, children inter...
26/11/2025

What parents canโ€™t heal, children inherit. ๐Ÿ’”

When a parent shuts down, reacts strongly, or canโ€™t connect, children internalise it as 'Iโ€™m too much.' That belief embeds deep in the body and shapes who they become.

This is how pain easily passes through generations โ€” and it's not from a lack of love but rather from a lack of emotional tools that were never taught or learned. The result is an inheritance no one wants: the unhealed pain of one generation carried by the next. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

Stress, neglect, and emotional pain in childhood rewire the brain. But whatโ€™s wired can be rewired. Healing begins when one generation decides: 'It ends with me.' ๐Ÿ’ซ

Emotional expression is at the heart of meaningful connection โœจEmotional expression is all about giving your feelings a ...
20/11/2025

Emotional expression is at the heart of meaningful connection โœจ

Emotional expression is all about giving your feelings a voice โ€” learning to acknowledge, process, and communicate your emotions in ways that are authentic and constructive. When we ignore, suppress, or dismiss our feelings, we can feel disconnected from ourselves; without that connection, forming healthy relationships and expressing our needs becomes challenging. ๐Ÿ’”

A maladaptive schema that blocks emotional expression is ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, and the healing pathway is ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป.

Learning to express and process your emotions is empowering. It allows you to stay connected to your inner experience, communicate your desires and needs clearly, and cultivate deeper, more authentic connections with others.

When you practice emotional expression, something shifts:
โœจ You gain clarity about what you truly feel
โœจ You respond to yourself with honesty and compassion
โœจ Your relationships deepen as you share your authentic self

Claiming your ability to express your emotions is essential if we want to maintain healthy connections with ourselves, with others, and with life.

~ Adapted from the principles of The Wellbeing Codes by Dr Tracey Hunter (Ph.D) and Dr Rachel Wheeler (Psy.D)

๐Ÿ’ก As a therapist, my role isnโ€™t to fix your darkness or make it disappear.I join you there, carrying a flashlight, helpi...
14/11/2025

๐Ÿ’ก As a therapist, my role isnโ€™t to fix your darkness or make it disappear.

I join you there, carrying a flashlight, helping you navigate the shadows and find your own way forward. Together, we explore, understand, and discover the strength thatโ€™s already inside you.

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Studio 7, 98-100 Goodwood Road, Goodwood
Adelaide, SA
5034

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 10am - 6pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 10am - 6pm
Friday 7am - 3pm

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