27/03/2026
A 3 year old child in our group had figured out a strategy that worked for him. He'd scream. The other child would get overwhelmed, run away, and he'd get what he wanted.
It worked. That was the problem.
So we taught him the swap strategy. Simple concept. Instead of screaming, he goes back to the other child, finds a resource he thinks they might like, and offers an exchange.
No screaming. No overwhelm. Just two kids figuring out how to share space.
The best part? He didn't just do it in the session. He started doing it at home. Then in the community. Different settings, different people, same strategy.
That's the thing about replacement behaviours. You can't just remove what a child is doing. You have to give them something that works just as well. When the new strategy gets them what they need, they'll use it.
He didn't need to stop wanting things. He needed a better way to get them.