25/01/2026
The Chair Theory changed how I see relationships
not because it’s poetic
but because it’s painfully accurate
Think of relationships like a table
The right people make space the moment you arrive
You don’t have to shrink
You don’t have to perform
You don’t have to explain why you deserve comfort
With the right people
the chair is already there
The wrong people make you hover
They watch you stand
They call your needs “too much”
They offer support only after you’re exhausted from asking
You’re not asking for too much
They’re offering too little
Healthy love does not negotiate for support
It does not ration care
It does not make rest conditional
When someone truly values you
their actions say
Sit
Rest
I’ve got you
If everyone else is seated while you’re still standing
that’s information
That’s your sign to stop begging for space
stand up
leave the room
and walk toward the place where someone says
I saved you a seat
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This applies to love
friendships
family
business
collaboration
and sacred partnership
The INBodied Woman no longer proves her worth for basic care
She chooses rooms where her body can soften
and her nervous system can finally rest
And Sacred Soul Union is built on this truth
Love that is steady
Love that is reliable
Love that does not make you earn safety
If this landed
save it
share it
and honour yourself enough to choose better rooms
Credits 🤍
Chair Theory words & framework inspired by:
Original video footage credited by original creator: &
