23/02/2026
Mapping relationships in the form of a genogram is a simple systemic tool with powerful insight.
Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?”
Systemic therapy asks “What’s been happening around me, and over time?”
Mapping relationships helps us notice:
⭐recurring family roles
⭐patterns of closeness and distance
⭐ how stress, conflict, or care move through relationships
⭐coping strategies that were learned, not chosen
Often, what feels like a personal flaw makes sense when viewed in context.
This work isn’t about blaming families or the past.
It’s about understanding how patterns were shaped, so they can soften.
You didn’t start from scratch.
You started from a system.