21/10/2025
In a recent episode on the about negative self talk, Mel asks award-winning Psychologist, Professor and best selling Author Dr if there’s a magic wand each of us can wave to silence our negative self-talk?
He replies, “There isn’t.”
Mel’s first reaction is the one many of us have: we don’t like that answer, suggesting that it would be amazing if there was be a quick fix.
Dr Kross reminds her that this is actually good news.
Every human life is distinct, so why would we expect ONE single tool to work for every single one of us? Rather, we can rely on MANY simple tools to manage the many different feelings, thoughts and behaviours we have each day.
This idea really stuck with us, as it’s exactly what we try to highlight in our work, including the Positive Taxonomy of Mental Health Map, where research shows us that there are 19 dimensions that inform our wellbeing, each uniquely impacting us, for every single one of us.
Our worlds are layered and unique, and the tools we work with should embrace that. In wellbeing, we often go searching for the one thing that will make us feel better, but the truth is that there are many tools and that’s the point. This should give us motivation to try out what works for us.
We highly recommend giving this episode a listen to learn more about our inner-critic and reset your mind for positive thinking.