23/05/2025
Q: "How to know if a thought is from trauma or from intuition? I have a stressful job and all my mind tells me is to leave it."
A. Trauma and intuition can sound similar at first. Both can say “Leave the job” — but for very different reasons. So, how do you know what’s what?
First, we have to learn to listen differently. Not by immediately making meaning. Not by believing every thought our mind offers. But by creating space — enough to notice how the message arises, where it comes from, and what energy it carries.
So listening is foundational to know the difference.
Here’s a simple way to feel the difference:
1. Trauma thoughts often arise from urgency, fear, despair or overwhelm. They tend to be fast, looping, or pressured. They come with emotional heaviness — panic, shame, dread — and often carry an “act now or something bad will happen” energy.
So when your mind says, “Leave the job,” it might not mean the job itself is the problem —
but that a part of you is overwhelmed, exhausted, and unheard.
If others or you’ve dismissed your needs again and again — at work, in childhood, in relationships —this thought could be a call to tend to the overhwlm, unmet needs or what led to overwhelm. Otherwise, you change the job and may end up in the same situation.
2. Intuition, by contrast, tends to come from a deeper, steadier place.
It might still be firm — but it isn’t frantic. It comes with a sense of clarity, not collapse. Even when it says something hard, it doesn’t pressure. It feels neutral, spacious, or grounded — like a truth gently rising from your body rather than your mind.
If thoughts like "leave the job" pop up from intuition, it can offer clarity on how the job doesn't serve you anymore or is not aligned with you. These points to strengths or truths that are suppressed, that are not expressed and lived.
The Self Attunement Audio Toolkit was created to guide you in exactly this: learning how to listen beyond the noise, make space for what’s underneath, and reconnect with the deeper wisdom.
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Love,
Ally.