24/11/2025
Miriam’s birth story-
My due date had already passed, and I had made peace with the idea that my little girl would arrive at 42 weeks — she was clearly taking her time. But on the night of October 24th I started having continuous cramps and tightening in my belly. I messaged my doula, Laura, and she told me it was a good sign. I didn’t want to get my hopes up too much, since I’d already had a false alarm a few weeks earlier with some fluid loss that turned out not to be amniotic.
But around 3:30 in the afternoon, while I was home alone, my waters broke — for real this time! I called my husband and told him to come home but not to rush. I also spoke with Laura, and she told me that contractions might start during the night and that we could soon be meeting our baby girl. That’s exactly what happened: contractions started shortly after, at first very irregular. As the hours went by, I tried to stay relaxed in the comfort of my home, just like Laura had suggested. My husband stayed by my side the whole time, timing the contractions. Laura called to check on me, and together we decided that I was still coping well enough to stay at home a bit longer.
Once we arrived in the birthing suite around 11:30 pm, everything became a blur — the contractions were so close together and almost unbearable. Laura stayed with me every second, alongside my husband, helping me find the right positions, giving massages and applying pressure points, encouraging me through every wave. At one point, while we were in the shower, I said I needed to push, and Laura told me we could move to the birthing tub. While I pushed with all my strength, Laura helped me focus my energy through my breathing and guided me so that I wouldn’t tear too much.
At 3:15 a.m., my baby girl finally arrived. During the final effort of birthing the placenta and getting stitched, my husband held our daughter and Laura held my hand. Once everything was done, I held my baby again — this time more awake, no longer in pain — and I fell completely, hopelessly in love with her.
Our beautiful baby, Nami ❤️