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Paws for Talk, Ballarat (2026)

29/03/2026

Sometimes I wonder if our pets know just how much they changed our lives.

They arrive as a small part of our world, but somehow they become our whole world. They teach us routine, patience, laughter, and a kind of love that asks for nothing except our presence.
And then one day, they leave… and they take a piece of our heart with them.

But I also believe they leave something behind.
They leave gentleness. They leave memories. They leave love that doesn’t go away.
So maybe they don’t ever really leave us at all.

12/03/2026

Over three decades ago when I first began supporting pet guardians through the grief of losing a beloved pet companion, many people thought it was a a little strange.
Pet loss wasn’t widely spoken about, and the depth of that grief was often misunderstood.
To see the awareness, compassion and understanding around pet loss grow over the years truly warms my heart.
Last year I was introduced to .for.pets who in turn introduced me to . Together we are able to offer a more holistic layer of care to pet guardians navigating one of the most difficult chapters of loving an animal.
Alongside the many wonderful veterinary clinics we work with, it really does take a team to support both pets and the humans who love them.
Thank you and .for.pets for all that you do.

11/03/2026

My advice is often..kick of your shoes and walk in the grass when safe to do so.

One thing that has surprised me over the years of working in pet loss support is how many men quietly carry very deep grief after the loss of a beloved pet.

Sometimes they arrive a little reluctantly. In fact, a few have jokingly admitted, ‘My wife made me come to see you.’ They often sit down determined to show they’re fine and that they don’t really need support.

Often they come into the conversation a little hesitant. Sometimes they say things like, ‘I didn’t realise how much this would affect me’ or ‘I feel silly being this upset over a dog or cat.’

But what unfolds is sometimes incredibly moving.

They talk about the early mornings together, the routines, the companionship, the loyalty, and the way their pet was there through life’s hardest moments. Many share that when their pet died, they lost a constant presence that had been beside them for years.

Men are often taught to stay strong and push through grief. Yet when given the space to speak openly, their love and heartbreak for their animals is profound.

Quite often those same men who didn’t think they needed support leave saying how helpful it was to finally talk about their pet and their grief.

It is always a privilege to witness that honesty and vulnerability.

Grief for a beloved animal is real. It deserves to be spoken about, honoured, and supported for everyone.

09/03/2026

Facing the impending loss of a beloved pet is incredibly hard for families, and children often feel this grief deeply. As adults, we sometimes want to protect them from pain, but including them in the process can actually help them understand and cope with what is happening.
When a pet is nearing the end of their life, honest and gentle conversations can make a big difference. Children benefit from clear language that helps them understand that their pet is very sick or very old and that their body is no longer able to keep going. Avoiding confusing phrases like ‘going to sleep’ can help prevent misunderstandings or fears.
Some ways to support children during this time include:
• Let them ask questions and answer honestly in age-appropriate ways
• Encourage them to spend special time with their pet if they wish
• Invite them to share memories, draw pictures, or write a letter to their pet
• Reassure them that sadness, anger, or even not wanting to talk are all normal feelings
• Allow them to be involved in goodbye rituals if appropriate
Children often take their emotional cues from the adults around them. When they see that it’s okay to feel sad and talk about their pet, they learn that grief is a natural part of loving someone.
Our pets are often a child’s first experience of loss. With support, compassion, and open conversation, this difficult time can also become a moment of deep love, connection, and meaningful goodbye.
If your family is facing the heartbreaking reality of saying goodbye to a beloved pet, please know you are not alone.

08/03/2026

Sometimes the hardest part of loving a pet is watching them grow older or become unwell. 💔🐾

Many pet guardians quietly carry the weight of questions like
‘Are they still enjoying life?’
‘Am I making the right decisions for them?’
‘How will I know when it’s time?’
These questions can feel incredibly heavy to hold alone.

My book ‘Fur the Broken Hearted’ was written to gently support pet guardians during these moments. Inside, you’ll find guidance, compassion, and a quality of life assessment to help you thoughtfully reflect on your pet’s wellbeing.
It’s not about rushing decisions.
It’s about feeling supported, informed, and less alone while loving your pet through this stage of life.
If you’re caring for an aging or unwell pet, this little book may help you navigate the path ahead with clarity and kindness. 🤍

🐾 You don’t have to carry this alone.
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05/03/2026

Losing a pet can be heartbreaking.

But sometimes the grief carries an extra layer.
Sometimes that pet is the last living connection to someone we loved and lost.
Maybe they were mum’s dog.
Maybe they slept on dad’s chair.
Maybe they came into your life during a time when that person was still here.
When that pet is dying, it can feel like you are losing two hearts at once.
The memories.
The routines.
The quiet link to someone who mattered deeply.

If you are feeling this kind of grief, please know there is nothing unusual about it. Your heart is simply recognising how meaningful that bond has been.
Grief doesn't follow rules or timelines.
It follows love.
Be gentle with yourself. 🤍🐾

03/03/2026

Bringing a new pet home after loss… 💛

There is no rule book for this.
Some families feel ready quickly.
Some can’t imagine it for years.
Some say 'never again'… and then one day their heart shifts.
Welcoming a new pet into your home after losing a fur loved one is not a replacement.
It’s not betrayal.
It’s not 'moving on'
It’s making space for love to exist alongside grief.
Your heart doesn’t divide, it expands.
You will notice the differences.
You may compare at first.
You may cry unexpectedly.
You may feel guilt mixed with joy.
All of that is normal.
A new little paw in the house doesn’t erase the one who came before.
It simply writes a new chapter, while the previous one remains forever part of your story.
If you’ve brought a new pet home after loss, what surprised you most about the experience?

And if you’re considering it, what feelings are coming up for you?

Grief and love can sit in the same room. Always. 🐾💕

02/03/2026

Sometimes people pick up a book…
And it becomes a lifeline.
This review means more to me than I can say.
When I wrote Fur the Broken Hearted, I hoped it would help even one person feel less alone in their grief. To know it supported Ashleigh in the loss of her beloved Spud and gave her the courage to reach out is exactly why Paws for Talk exists.
Grief can feel isolating.
Especially when you lose your 'heart dog'.
Especially when they were young.
Especially when the world keeps moving and yours feels paused.
You don’t have to carry it alone.
Thank you, Ashleigh, for trusting me with your story and your broken heart. ❤️
If you’re reading this wondering whether to reach out or buy the book… maybe this is your sign too.
Link in bio ❤️

26/02/2026

Grief isn’t just something we feel in our hearts.
It can live in our bodies too.
You might notice:
• Tightness in your chest
• A heavy, aching body
• Headaches that won’t ease
• Nausea or loss of appetite
• Exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix
Grief can make you feel like you’ve run a marathon… even when you’ve barely moved.
When we lose someone we love a person or a beloved pet our nervous system goes into shock.
Stress hormones rise. Muscles tense. Sleep is disrupted. The body holds the heartbreak.
There is nothing 'dramatic' about this.
There is nothing 'weak' about this.

This is a human response to loss.

If your body feels different since your loss, you are not imagining it. Your grief is real. And it deserves gentleness.
Today, can you offer your body one small act of kindness?
A warm shower. A slow walk. A hand over your heart. A deep breath.
Grief is emotional.
Grief is physical.
And you are not alone 🤍

22/02/2026

🦆 Have you ever felt like a duck in your grieving process?
On the surface…
You look calm.
Composed.
Getting on with life.
But underneath?
You’re paddling hard.
Exhausted.
Trying to stay afloat.
Grief can be like that.
The world sees you functioning, going to work, caring for your family, smiling in conversations.
But beneath the surface, your heart aches for the paw prints that are no longer beside you.
When we lose a beloved pet, people often expect us to 'be okay' quickly.
But love doesn’t disappear just because time has passed.
If you’re paddling hard beneath the surface right now, please know:
💛 You are not weak.
💛 You are not dramatic.
💛 You are grieving someone who mattered deeply.
And that deserves gentleness.
Tell me in the comments, are you feeling calm on the surface but struggling underneath? You are safe here. 🐾

18/02/2026

Some hearts don’t just break…
they shatter quietly in the shape of paws. 🐾
If you have ever loved a pet,
you know this kind of grief.
The empty bed.
The silent house.
The routine that hurts.
Fur The Broken Hearted was written for those moments
for the tears that come out of nowhere,
for the guilt, the 'what ifs',
and for the love that never leaves.
But it’s more than a book about loss.
Inside you’ll find
✨ A compassionate Quality of Life assessment to help guide difficult decisions
✨ Gentle support around behavioural euthanasia without judgement or shame
✨ Guidance for navigating guilt and the 'what ifs'
✨ Words that help you feel less alone
Because sometimes the hardest part isn’t just losing them…
it’s carrying the weight of the decision.
This book holds space for that.
✨ Because grief doesn’t follow a timeline.
✨ Because love doesn’t disappear.
✨ Because they were never 'just a pet.'
If your heart or someone you love is hurting,
this book was written for you.
Available now.
(Link in bio)
PawsForTalk

17/02/2026

Who has woken up with a heavy heart today?
Maybe your loss is fresh and raw.
Maybe it’s been months… or even years.
It doesn’t matter.
Grief doesn’t follow a timeline.
It doesn’t check the calendar.
It doesn’t care how long it’s 'supposed' to last.
Loving them was never small, so missing them won’t be either.
If your heart is hurting today, you’re not alone.
You are welcome here.
If you feel comfortable, drop a 🤍 in the comments or share your pet’s name.
Say it out loud.
They mattered. They still matter.

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