03/03/2026
Sometimes when we talk about the fight, flight, freeze response, it can sound abstract.
This is how we often explain it in session.
The thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) helps with reasoning, planning and perspective.
The amygdala is the smoke detector of the brain.
It scans the environment for signs of danger and uses our previous experiences to decide how big the threat might be.
If you’ve experienced trauma, chronic stress, or repeated overwhelm, that smoke detector can become extra sensitive.
When it goes off, the nervous system activates quickly —
and the thinking brain goes offline.
That’s why:
• You say things you don’t mean
• You shut down and can’t respond
• You feel flooded and overwhelmed
• You can’t “just calm down”
Many of our clients will recognise this drawing from early sessions when we talk about anxiety, trauma and neurodiversity.
It’s not a character flaw.
It’s a nervous system doing its job.
The work isn’t about forcing logic.
It’s about helping the nervous system feel safe enough for the thinking brain to come back online.
Nervous systems can learn safety again.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. 🖤