26/01/2026
And there's not just a simple one size fits all way forward of course but what I've found through my own experience in acknowledging and releasing this behaviour is:
To understand that this behaviour/pattern has been possibly embedded since childhood so it's not going to go away overnight.
Dissolving and releasing this pattern (which has become a way of being) will take a level of self awareness, compassion and courage to change.
This is why I'm so passionate about supportimg people who are struggling with this pattern.
I know from personal experience how debilitating it can be to abandon our own needs to:
Win favor
Keep the peace
Stay safe by not speaking our truth
Avoid disappointing others
But there is a way through with the right support.
If you're struggling with people pleasing, perfectionism and know you're ready for change, message CHANGE and I'll send you a link to a free mini coaching call where you'll feel clarity for a way forward.
Or follow along for more conversations on shadow work, empowerment, emotional freedom and a gentle recalibration of the fine-tuning of your inner world.
Much warmth
Helen