29/01/2026
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙘𝙡𝙖𝙞𝙢?
FEI.
Grand Prix.
State or National titles.
3DE
That next level where you know you belong, even if part of you pretends you don’t.
So let me ask you this…
Why does it sometimes feel like you’re dancing one step forward, two steps back?
Why the restarts?
The stops and starts.
The almosts.
As a Rider’s Edge & Transformational Coach, I work with riders who are surprised, often stunned, to discover they’re not lacking talent, commitment, or desire.
They’re just running old programs.
Meet one of the most common: the unconscious saboteur.
This is the part of the mind designed to “protect” you.
Its job? To keep you safe from being seen, judged, or found out.
So when you book the clinic.
Commit to the lesson.
Saying yes to the thing your future self is calling you toward…
That quiet unconscious belief kicks in:
I’m not good enough
I’m not ready
I’m not worthy
And suddenly…
The horse goes lame.
You get sick.
Money becomes “tight”.
The float gets a flat tyre.
It’s the wrong day.
It’s not what you really want.
and you pull out of the event.
Sound familiar?
Here’s the uncomfortable truth (said with love):
It all feels very real, but it’s an unconscious pattern and YOU are creating it.
Rather than leaning into the tension of "this is the edge that grows me", the nervous system feels stress and pulls out. The mind creates a thousand reasonable explanations. And the dream stays safely out of reach.
I’ll say it gently and clearly:
This isn’t bad luck. It’s self-sabotage. It is you not wanting the world to see that you are not good enough.
The question isn’t why does this always happen to me?
The question is:
Is this a pattern I’m ready to interrupt and take ownership of?
Because the moment you stop trying to fix the past…
And start riding from the end result you desire…
Everything shifts.
This is the work of Rider’s Edge.
Not more effort.
More awareness.
More choice and
Being in the flow of what it is you desire to create.
Your horse already feels who you’re becoming.
The only question is — are you willing to ride there too?
