12/02/2026
Answering the question: WHO AM I? brings about a shift within us, giving us clarity, purpose and direction.
An enquiry in Knowing The Self is far beyond knowledge of the world, people, places, things and the PERSON - that is You. Yes, the Person is the sum total of everything YOU know and are including, personality, relationship, religion, character, beliefs, ideas, concepts, emotions, feelings, thoughts, sensations, likes/dislikes, a Sense of Individuality as a separate entity, I exist as a Being, I am different and I am special, this is ME, etc. Everything that makes YOU as you being separate is the PERSON.
Know that the Person is referred to as Naam-Roop-Vyohaara (Name-Form-Personality). The Self on the other hand is UNIVERSAL known as Sat-Chit-Ananda. There is only one SELF aka Consciousness or Awareness or God, if you may say.
Know that anything you define is the Person is due to the presence of Self. The Person only "exists" due to the Self.
So, when is the Person missing or not present?
In Deep Sleep of course or in a state that is similar to Deep Sleep is called Samadhi or Nirvana Padh (a state of liberation). This state is possible in deep meditation while in the Awake state as in deep sleep, one cannot know or learn the qualities of the Self.
Deep meditation means establishing in the Self to Be Thy SELF, NOT the Person.
To Be the Self, doesn't mean to Be the Person. The Person doesn't need to change to become the Self. Yes, establishing the Self for long allows the Person to change. Much easier than agonising over trying to change the Person.
It is a waste of a lifetime effort to change the Person, which every religion teaches due to establishing SATTVIC mode (State of Goodness). DO NOT do that, as the Person is defined by the world of people, places and things. The Self is totally independent.
When the Person is not there in Deep Sleep or in the state of deep meditation, the SELF remains as the WITNESS to the Nothing.
In the dreaming and waking states, the SELF is WITNESS to the Person. The state of liberation or SAT CHIT ANANDA (Truth Consciousness Bliss) can only be experienced when one practices being the " Witness that we call Atma".
Being the Self brings about these qualities in the Person, as described by Kabir Saheb:
(1) “Kurm” - Sound of creation
(2) “Gyani” - Knowledge of Self
(3) “Vivek” - Wisdom
(4) “Tej” - Shining (Divine ) Light
(5) “Sahaj” - Effortless
(6) “Santosh” - Patience
(7) “Surati” - Power of attention, concentration or focus
(8) “Anand” - Blissfulness
(9) “Kshma” - Power of forgiveness to release the Self from the grips of the Person
(10) “Nishkaam” - Selfless activities
(11) “Jalrangi” - Purity and cleanliness
(12) “Achint” - Fearless
(13) “Prem” - Love
(14) “Dayaal” - Compassion
(15) “Dhairya” - Resilience
(16) “Yog Santayan” - Knower of Yog (Union) or Yoga
THIS DOES NOT MEAN the PERSON has to sit in deep meditation all the time or become calm, silent and still forever.
Establishing in the Self, brings stillness within, not externally. Many times, there is no change externally as viewed by another, but only YOU will know the TRUTH about the SELF. Happy discovery. 🙏🙏🙏