26/11/2025
In order to be reborn or to transform, parts of us must die. * I am not discussing physical death.
We step away from old patterns, behaviour and strategies that once got us through life. They determined the quality of our life , our relationships and how we thought of ourselves.
We decide to never return to places, people and ways of being. It hurts too much and it’s incredibly uncomfortable to exist there anymore.
Placing a dying flower on your altar is a beautiful representation of this powerful moment. It is a courageous act to walk away from who we once were so we may become a different version of ourselves. With this journey comes loss and a feeling of grief.
As you attend to your altar witness the process of death in the flower. Light a candle, burn some incense and diffuse some essential oils . I recommend ancestor veneration as the oils in this blend are associated with death. I would also recommend inner visions , clearing, I am safe and full moon blend. Access the energy of these blends to support you as you walk away and towards betterment.
Resisting endings can sometimes be more painful than the ending itself. The energy of this year strongly supports transformation through endings and growth.
