29/11/2025
Hey everyone 👋🏻 It’s been a while so I wanted to pop in with a little life update. And unfortunately, no, I’m not resuming my cake business.
For those of you who haven’t heard, I have finally accomplished my childhood dream of becoming a published author. My very first book ‘From One Heart To Another: Poetry By A Grieving Mother’ will be published on 11th Dec 2025, what should have been Dorian’s 2nd birthday 🧡
I’ve had this dream since I was 10, and the goal was to do it by 16. But life got in the way and so the goal kept changing and eventually settled at “one day”.
After Dorian passed, I was trying to figure out what to say at his memorial. I wrote 3 poems in one sitting, one of which I did end up reading. And in the following weeks, as I struggled to accept the harsh reality that he was never coming back, I felt God prompting, “Write a poetry book on your grief.” And so I did.
I started pouring my grief into poetry, writing through pain, tears, and heartbreak. It wasn’t easy, but God kept me going. When I was stuck, He gave me inspiration, when I needed help, he led me to the right people; I can’t tell you how many doors He opened for me without me even having to ask. To God be the glory because this book wouldn’t have been possible without Him 🙌🏻
And now, my “one day” has come, except it’s a bittersweet moment for me. If you’d asked me even 2 years ago, if this is what my dream would’ve looked like, the answer would be so far from it. Still, this book is a huge achievement, and I’m so incredibly proud of what I’ve accomplished despite my grief. I’ve trusted God, and turned some of my pain into purpose.
“To all who mourn…He will give a crown of beauty instead of ashes” - Isaiah 61:3
And now I can only pray that my book will find the people who need it - mothers & people who are grieving, and even those supporting others or wanting to learn more about grief. If my book can help even just ONE person, then that will be some beauty from the ashes🌻
My book is currently available to preorder. If you’d like to follow along my writing journey or find out more about my book, come join me at .writes 💛