22/10/2025
A little compassion and thoughtfulness goes a long way 💭
As parents of children with disability, we often hear comments that, while not meant to be dismissive, can feel that way. A passing remark from an equipment supplier, clinician, or member of the public — “that’s just Mum life” — might seem harmless, but it can overlook the reality of our day-to-day load as primary carers.
Our “Mum life” often involves a bit more heavy lifting — our little one plus their equipment, behavioural de-escalation strategies, sensory management, and everything in between.
These comments, even when said in jest, can have an impact. So what do we do when they’re made? How do we gently educate those who aren’t walking in your shoes?
Maybe it’s as simple as replying with something like, “I know all parents have busy lives, but ours just has a little more going on.”
And for those who interact with carers — a little compassion and thoughtfulness before speaking truly goes a long way. Most days, we just get on with it. But some days, the load feels heavy — and a small comment can weigh more than you realise. 💗