08/03/2024
As we celebrate International Women's Day, I want to reflect on the profound connection between perinatal psychology and feminism. In my work as a perinatal clinical psychologist, I've come to realise that you can't truly support women during their journey to motherhood without embracing feminist principles.
Feminism is not just a theoretical concept; it's a call to action. It's about recognising and dismantling the systemic barriers that women face in accessing quality healthcare, making informed choices, and experiencing respectful maternity care. It's about advocating for women's rights to autonomy, agency, and dignity throughout the perinatal period.
I was in my car on the way to an IWD lunch today and was listening to Teardrop by Massive Attack (showing my age)…"Love, love is a verb. Love is a doing word."
Love (in this context probably better defined as compassionate care) is not passive; it's active. It's about showing up for women in tangible ways – listening to their stories, validating their experiences, and advocating for their rights. It's about embodying love through our actions, not just our words.
As psychologists, we have a unique opportunity to practice love as a verb every day. It's the moments when we sit and hold space for a grieving mother. It’s the forensic assessments we conduct to legitimise boundaries and quantify the impact of family violence. It's in meetings when we advocate for policies that prioritize maternal mental health and well-being. It's when we challenge societal norms that undermine women's autonomy and agency. It’s in the research we conduct to tell the stories historically unspoken.
This International Women's Day, let's commit to practicing love as a verb in our work and beyond. Let's challenge ourselves to actively support women, advocate for their rights, and work towards a more just and equitable world for all. Happy International Women's Day!