The Flourished Collective

The Flourished Collective Empowerment, Healing + Embodiment Coach.
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17/11/2025

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From my book ‘this was meant to find you’

09/11/2025

Here’s a clear, gentle, grounded way to understand masculine attachment, especially through the lens of emotional embodiment and relational dynamics.

✅ What “Masculine Attachment” Really Means

When people refer to masculine attachment, they’re not talking about men specifically — they’re referring to the masculine energetic pattern within attachment.

Every person carries both masculine and feminine energies.
In attachment, the masculine has some predictable tendencies, strengths, and wounds.

Think of it like the yang of relationship patterns.

✅ Core Traits of Masculine Attachment Energy

1. Independence & Autonomy

Masculine energy values:
• space
• clarity
• task-orientation
• self-sufficiency

When healthy, this looks like grounded leadership and steadiness.

When wounded, this can shift into:
• emotional distancing
• avoidant tendencies
• withdrawal in conflict

This is why people with more masculine attachment energy may shut down or need space when things feel overwhelming.

2. Purpose-Driven Connection

Masculine attachment bonds through:
• doing
• providing
• protecting
• solving

They often express love through actions more than emotional language.

This can feel like:
• “I show up for you — that’s how I love you.”
• “Let me fix it” instead of “Let me hear you.”

3. Emotional Safety = Competency

The masculine feels emotionally safe when they feel:
• respected
• useful
• capable

If they feel criticized, controlled, or like they’re failing, their attachment response often becomes:
• shutdown
• retreat
• silence

Not because they don’t care — but because they’re overwhelmed internally.

4. Nervous System Pattern: Freeze → Distance

Feminine attachment often moves toward connection when upset.

Masculine attachment often moves away to regulate.

This can create a push–pull dynamic if not understood.

✅ Healthy vs. Wounded Masculine Attachment

Healthy Masculine Attachment
• grounded and consistent
• takes responsibility
• communicates directly
• supports without controlling
• stays emotionally present, even if quiet
• values both freedom and connection

Wounded Masculine Attachment
• emotionally avoidant
• afraid of being “trapped” or needed too much
• withdraws under stress
• struggles to name feelings
• confuses conflict with failure

✅ Why This Matters in Relationship Dynamics

When feminine attachment energy seeks closeness during stress, and masculine energy craves space to regulate, both can misunderstand each other.

👉 The feminine thinks: “He’s pulling away — I’m unsafe.”
👉 The masculine thinks: “I can’t get this right — I’m failing.”

Understanding masculine attachment softens the entire dynamic.

✅ How to Soften Masculine Attachment Patterns

For yourself (or partner), healing masculine attachment includes:
• learning emotional language
• tolerating vulnerability in small doses
• practicing co-regulation instead of isolation
• reframing conflict as connection
• receiving support without losing autonomy
• rebuilding safety around closeness instead of space alone

Relationship Coaching available online 🙂

Incredible deep inner work! What patterns show up in your life and release the cycles in your life! Heal your relationsh...
04/11/2025

Incredible deep inner work!

What patterns show up in your life and release the cycles in your life!

Heal your relationship to yourself and your relationships in life....

Create inner safety for yourself (masculine) and nurture your heart (feminine)

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Our Forest Family Session Mothers Group 🌸🌟
04/11/2025

Our Forest Family Session Mothers Group 🌸🌟

Join us for Forest Family Sundays at The Hut Chapel Hill, where we'll explore Mount Coot-tha Forest, and environmental learning comes alive!

✨ REST your energy. Reframe your mindset. ✨Stop leaking your power into people, places, and things that don’t value your...
04/11/2025

✨ REST your energy. Reframe your mindset. ✨

Stop leaking your power into people, places, and things that don’t value your time or your worth.
Stop overconsuming — it drains your energy, your clarity, and your love.

Start honoring the NO your body whispers. Get clear, get discerning, get intentional.

Clear out anything that leaves you feeling depleted.
Your energy is your greatest asset — protect it fiercely.

You deserve to pursue your goals feeling magnetic, powerful, and grounded… not drained.

Release the victim mindset. Step into the version of you who owns her energy, her boundaries, and her life.

You’re not here to be exhausted.
You’re here to RISE. ⚡️

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A lot of people ask us what women's retreats and circles we host.✨ Sacred Feminine Reawakening (connecting to intuition,...
03/11/2025

A lot of people ask us what women's retreats and circles we host.

✨ Sacred Feminine Reawakening (connecting to intuition, sensuality, and cycles)

🌙 New Moon Manifestation Circles (setting monthly intentions)

🌹 Heart-Centered Leadership for Women (for entrepreneurs and changemakers)

🕯 Healing Sisterhood Circles (emotional release, journaling, breathwork, etc.)

Which one are you most interested in?> xoxo

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As an Intuitive Life Coach, Beauty Therapist, Writer and Creator I am here to guide you to follow your heart, live mindfully with balance and grace, find and express your deep truth and feel confident to do so, unravel your deep limiting beliefs and patterns in life and rewrite your intentions on living a conscious happy, loving and whole life.

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