16/03/2026
Day 3 of the Bay of Fires, Fundraising hike
I tend to find that day 3 of a hike can be the day when things start to get challenging. The legs are getting tired, everything is getting sorer, blisters are setting in (despite all the best prevention). And today’s day 3, for me, was pretty much all of that.
It was roughly 13km over the course of about 6 hours; in theory, sounds manageable, right? I thought so. Nevertheless, it was 80% on sand. A lot of that was soft sand that you constantly sink into (hello blisters!!), as we walked along a relentless sloping shoreline that had me constantly overusing one side of my body. The other 20% was rock scrambling. Not the easiest!!
Honestly, there were some trying moments. What kept me going, however, was the team. Day 3 of a hike is also a day where you’re starting to really get to know one another. You’ve had the chance to have individual conversations with most people. You get to learn that everyone here has a story, a reason that they’re here, and a reason that keeps them going.
It is in those conversations, connections, sharing, and laughs, that we have all been able to dig deep and keep going. In a way, I think these experiences reflect many people’s journey through recovery from an eating disorder, or any mental health struggle. Mental health concerns thrive in secrecy and isolation. Yet, they can slowly begin to shrink in connection, true vulnerability, and sharing.
It’s not always easy, especially if it’s not a familiar pattern, to share internal struggles. But it gets easier with practice and is well worth the commitment. To speak up and say, “I’m struggling” is a brave thing. To share that it’s not easy invites others to share their struggles also. It gives the opportunity to realise that deep down, we often have more in common than what we might worry is different.
The fundraising link remains open while we walk. If you are yet to donate, you can do so here. Please give whatever you can afford 🙏🏻❤️
https://eating-disorders-foundation-of-victoria-inc.grassrootz.com/edv-bayoffires-2026/bianca-sandra?tab=donations
Again, for Instagram, I’ll pop a link in stories ☺️🙏🏻❤️