19/11/2025
We can’t change what we can’t see, and that is why awareness has the capacity to change our reality. Neural pathway development helps us to change patterns of behaviour on an unconscious level.
Our Enneagram 9’s learnt that their value was tied to going along with everything and everyone, never rocking the boat. Being likeable, easy-going and dependable has our 9’s feel a sense of worth.
That brings great gifts to the world, like bringing harmony into their spaces. They have an incredible way of seeing all perspectives and understanding others, to name a few.
But it takes a toll on what happens behind the scenes when they struggle to turn up for their hopes and dreams, speak up for themselves, and keep tolerating mistreatment.
Bringing awareness to Enneagram 9’s habitual patterns means they can begin to be a little more honouring with themselves and see the possibilities of a new reality.
To all our Enneagram 9’s, which on the list do you see keeps you from being gentle with yourself? Maybe you have a partner or a friend who you notice always just going along with what others want and struggling to make decisions for themselves.
When we can see it, we breathe a little more and watch how brutal we are to ourselves. Self-awareness changes lives.