21/02/2026
One thing I talk about with families a lot is this…
Even when our kids are verbal, telling us what the problem actually is can be really hard.
We might hear “I don’t know”, see behaviour escalate, or just know something isn’t right. Often it’s because in the moment they’re overwhelmed, confused, uncomfortable, or unsure what’s expected, and the words just don’t come.
And the reality is, we’re not with them all day. Things happen at school or in the community and we’re left trying to piece it together afterwards.
Simple visuals like this can really help.
They give children something concrete to point to, reduce the language load when they’re stressed, and help adults understand what’s going on underneath the behaviour. Over time, they also build emotional awareness and confidence in communicating needs.
Visual supports aren’t just for non-verbal children. They’re tools for regulation and communication.
Sometimes pointing is easier than explaining.
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