18/04/2026
One of the most common questions I get from parents: how do I get my teenager to actually talk to a psychologist?
Honest answer? It depends. But here's what I know doesn't work: surprises. Tricking or ambushing your teen into a session will almost certainly backfire — and that's a $230 lesson no one needs.
Here's what can help:
- Start small. Invite them to try one session, no strings attached. No pressure to continue.
- Let them check me out first. Teens worry they'll be sent to someone who'll confiscate their devices and lecture them about screen time. My podcasts and TEDx talk exist so they can see I'm not that person before they walk in the door.
- If they're not ready — that's okay too. I can work with you as the parent instead. Supporting you is often the most powerful place to start, even before your teen is on board.
Yep, teens today have high mental health literacy — they know the language. BUT knowing the words doesn't always translate to seeking help, especially when they think you need to be "really struggling" to justify seeing someone. Lowering the stakes is often the first bridge to stepping in my door.
💬 Curious whether I might be the right fit for your teen? Get in touch — I'd love to talk about how I might be able to support your family.