02/12/2025
Kya, Story time:
When a woman is pregnant in Nyoongar she is Boodjary, describing the deep connection to Boodja (Mother Earth). As the physical umbilical cord grows between mother and baby, so does the spiritual umbilical cord.
And this is the piece we forget, sxual energy is creative energy. The most potent energy. Creative energy is the pulsing of the umbilical cord itself, the place where life is created and nurtured. This is the thread, the remembering.
Why this is important is also why this ‘healing’ work is so important, and why sxual healing is a remembering of that connection.
When a woman is empowered she knows her worth, her value, her boundaries. Her core beliefs and internal world are unshakable. She is deeply rooted into her knowing (which is a collective knowing).
It’s a fortified softness that ripples into all aspects of her life.
This deep knowing is what the system (patriarchal, colonisation) has tried to sever and disconnect. Women are waking up and remembering this connection, feeling their deep roots and initial cord into Boodja.
Why the system is crumbling, I see the systems crumbling not because they’re broken, but because they are doing exactly as they were intended: to disconnect women (and men) from their sxual sovereignty, their power, their connection, and the relational alchemy that is the fabric of life… connection, relational health, and wellbeing.
Why it’s crumbling now is because we are reconnecting. The way forward will be through relationship, right relationship to truth, to self, to body, to mind, to others, to the land.
Spirituality is connection to nature. More people are waking up to this.
This has left a wave of women craving more… more connection, more love, more nature, more embodiment.
Indigenous societies are matriarchal-led; this is the old-new way forward, a returning, a remembering and it’s happening.
I am excited… I am turned on by these conversations over the years but especially lately both online and in person
