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When - AI Grow Up Exploring the future of AI on behalf of my three kids, aged 13, 4 and 1.

22/12/2025

Over the past few months, I’ve been exploring a question that feels increasingly urgent:

Are we experiencing a masculinity crisis — and what’s actually sitting underneath it?

Identity, responsibility, emotional development, violence, cultural expectations…
It’s clear many men are struggling — and society is struggling with the consequences.

To go deeper, I turned to someone whose insight I trust profoundly: Dr Mei-Ling Doery. Mei’s experience spans emergency medicine, AFL elite sport, military and veterans’ health, public health leadership and strategic advisory. Mei has seen the impact of male violence, trauma and cultural conditioning from every angle.

We recorded our conversation on Tuesday 9 December 2025. In it, Mei refers to “the Bondi massacre,” meaning the Bondi Junction attack of April 2024, where six people lost their lives.
Tragically, by the Sunday 14th of that same week we recorded, another massacre occurred at Bondi Beach.

Two separate events, a year apart — in a place I called home for many years, the closeness of these events is deeply felt.

After deep reflection, we’ve decided to release the podcast as it was recorded. 

At the time, the conversation felt important — but also uncomfortable.
In light of recent events, it feels even more necessary.

The themes — violence, culture, responsibility, and what it means to be a “good man” — matter now more than ever.

Episode is live on YouTube and Audio Podcast Channels.

01/12/2025

Modern men are struggling — with identity, purpose, dating, confidence, mental health and direction.

In a raw and honest conversation with Ronen Heine (scientist-turned-lawyer, founder of Luna, lecturer + advisor to startups and VCs), we break down the real crisis facing men today — and what needs to change.

We cover:
• Biological reality vs social shame
• The collapse of communication & social skills in young men
• Why so many feel lost, isolated and disconnected
• The tools boys actually need to build discipline, confidence & identity
• Why the entrepreneurial mindset will be essential in the future workforce
• Lessons from building & selling companies
• Preparing the next generation for the world ahead

This is a conversation about masculinity, purpose, identity, pressure, resilience and what it really means to grow up in 2025.

🎙 Watch / listen now — link in bio
Tag someone who needs this conversation.

Has AI Eaten SaaS?or is it still nibbling?Software ate the world.The hungriest munchers?SaaS unicorns.Apps in your brows...
24/04/2025

Has AI Eaten SaaS?
or is it still nibbling?

Software ate the world.
The hungriest munchers?
SaaS unicorns.
Apps in your browser,
subscriptions on your card.
Everything became “as-a-service.”
Now?
Satya Nadella says
SaaS is toast.
He predicts a future
where everything connects
directly into an LLM.
Of course,
he’s also OpenAI’s largest shareholder.
Convenient.
But let’s not pretend
he’s wrong either.
AI is moving fast.
Too fast.

The Four-Way Battle
What’s happening now
isn’t SaaS dying.
It’s an innovator’s cage fight.
1. Humans —
Trying to use AI
to stay relevant.
2. SaaS companies —
Trying to make humans
look like low-cost APIs.
3. LLMs —
Trying to eat both.
Jack of all trades,
master of...
well, we'll see.
4. AI wrappers —
Acting like agents.
Trying to eat 1 and 2
while dodging 3
before their next update kills them.
Fun.
Clayton Christensen called it:
New tech starts cheap,
low-fidelity,
and irrelevant.
Then it climbs the ladder
until it replaces the incumbents.

Let’s Talk Design
At Soma,
our retreat brand needs finesse.
We hire pros.
Humans shoot, edit, polish.
AI helps,
but it’s 20% of the work, max.
With When (AI) Grow Up?
No rules.
No time.
No design skill.
I had to build
a YouTube banner
and some thumbnails.
Tried OpenAI:
Meh.
Tried Canva AI:
Still meh.
Then I found Manus —
agentic platform,
runs with your prompts.
I set it up,
grabbed a kettlebell,
came back 25 minutes later.
Results?
Not terrible.
But not good either.
So I had two choices:
A. Fiverr:
$200+ and a wait.
B. Canva Pro:
$30/month,
Aussie-made,
might as well try.
Two hours later,
I had something I liked.
Until my wife saw it.
Said it sucked.
But with her edits?
Pretty damn decent.

So… is SaaS dead?
No.
But it’s under siege.
Wrappers are improving.
LLMs are evolving.
And speed matters.
Give it a year,
and that Canva output
might be reproduced
with 5 minutes of prompting
and 15 minutes of compute.
So the race is on:
A. Can SaaS embrace AI,
strip all friction,
and become idiot-proof?
B. Do AI wrappers win,
eating both the users
and the platforms?
C. Or does GPT-5
absorb it all
and keep us inside
its velvet walled garden?
Stay tuned.
Because something’s getting eaten.

If you want to check out my fancy new banner you can see it here

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Can My Kids Outrun AI?My eldest daughter will graduate from university around 2032. Reading ex-Openai Ai researcher Leop...
17/04/2025

Can My Kids Outrun AI?

My eldest daughter will graduate from university around 2032. Reading ex-Openai Ai researcher Leopold Aschenbrenner’s white paper, "Situational Awareness," hits like a truck.

Three graphs and 167 pages later, I couldn’t shake one question:
"What the hell will our kids do?"

These charts show an exponential surge. From GPT-2 (preschooler intelligence) to GPT-4 (smart high schooler), AI is predicted to reach Ph.d.-level research skills by 2027. Each upgrade leaps multiple orders of magnitude in computational power. By 2028, we’ll have fully autonomous AI researchers for mere dollars.


My first job was in ad tech, starting just after the company got acquired. I loaded bid data, ran analyses, and passed insights to account managers. These entry-level roles—where interns cut their teeth—will vanish in just a few short years.

The core skill for surviving this wave?

Persuasion. Communication. Nuance.

I would’ve bet on analysis six months ago, but then Open AI Deep Research happened. Now the human edge is navigating nuance, politics, legacy systems, and emotions. If you've ever sold tech into an Aussie telco, you'll know exactly what I mean. But nuance takes years to master.

Maybe the solution is hybrid internships—part school, part work. Students won't be needed for basic tasks. They'll need zoomed-out, systems-thinking minds, rationality, the ability to sift biases, analyze perspectives, and articulate ideas clearly.

I could be wrong. After all, plenty of legendary careers started in mailrooms—roles that don’t exist anymore. Maybe I just can't yet imagine what the "mailroom" or "ad ops" of 2032 will look like.

Persuasion, though? That's a superpower today and tomorrow. With tools like Google’s NotebookLM becoming basic, our kids might become exponentially smarter overnight. What once took months to grasp now takes hours.
Maybe my eldest daughter can ride this wave. But one thing's clear—I need a plan.

Fast.

10/04/2025

Why I Studied Kriya Yoga While Obsessing Over AI

For the last six months, I’ve been obsessed with the coming wave of AI—specifically AI agents—and the colossal shift they’ll bring to education, work, and the very meaning of life. I’ve spoken to anyone who would listen. I’ve explored the frontiers of what’s coming. And yet, in the middle of that storm, I found myself signing up for a 200-hour teacher training in Kriya Yoga.

Why?

To answer that, we have to rewind the clock.

In 2011, the world mourned the loss of Steve Jobs—the greatest tech innovator of our lifetime. I’d just begun meditating, and I was fascinated to learn that Steve, too, had traveled to India in his youth to study meditation. At his memorial, everyone received a copy of Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda.

I stored that book away in my mental list—"something to read one day."

Fast forward: I sold my company, TVN, and helped scale it from zero to $50 million in revenue. After the exit, I co-founded Soma, a meditation retreat in Byron Bay. The man who taught me to meditate—Gary Gorrow—became my business partner. One day, he suggested we place Autobiography of a Yogi in every guest’s room. There it was again. The Steve Jobs book.

This time, I read it, and I was fascinated. Yogananda spoke of an ancient practice called Kriya Yoga—a discipline so powerful that his teachers seemed to possess Jedi-like capabilities. In fact, George Lucas was inspired by it when creating Star Wars.

But here’s the twist: Kriya Yoga isn’t about acquiring powers. It’s about accessing stillness, alignment, and mastery from within. In the West, we’ve reduced yoga to stretching. But true yoga—yuj, in Sanskrit—means union. Breathwork, meditation, mantra, and energy mastery are part of a complete system that connects us to who we truly are.

And that brings us to now.

The AI Tidal Wave

We are entering a time of unprecedented disruption. Zero-cost expertise is coming. Automation is accelerating. My three kids—13, 4, and 1—will likely enter a workforce that looks nothing like the one I entered. In fact, it may not require much work at all.

Work, for most of us, has been the anchor of our identity and the source of our meaning. As AI decouples productivity from employment, the question becomes: Where will we find meaning next?

Without daily rituals, trusted frameworks, and timeless practices, we risk floating in a sea of distraction and despair.

And that’s my thesis: we will need inner technology to match the outer technology. Practices like Kriya Yoga—rooted in over 7,000 years of wisdom—will become essential.

When I’ve faced loss, stress, or overwhelm, Kriya Yoga has been my path inward to get back out. It’s a system I trust. Not because it’s trendy. Because it works.

Why Now

Steve Jobs—the world’s most celebrated technologist—was a devotee of this path. That’s not a coincidence. As AI reaches its tipping point, and the U.S. loses its grip as the world’s stabilizer, we’re entering a fragile epoch. Add in shareholder-driven tech rollouts and rising geopolitical tensions, and the need for a practice rooted in wisdom, not profits, becomes clear.

This isn’t about nostalgia or spiritual tourism. It’s about survival of the self. As we augment our lives with AI, we must equally invest in the human operating system.

Kriya Yoga is that system. It’s the ancient technology we’ll need to stay grounded, clear, and connected in a world accelerating beyond recognition.

And maybe—just maybe—Steve Jobs was giving us more than a book. Maybe he was handing us a blueprint for how to navigate what's coming.

Exploring the future of AI on behalf of my three kids, aged 13, 4 and 1.

10/04/2025

The world is about to change more in the next decade than in all of human history combined.

Artificial Intelligence isn't just technology—it's a seismic shift that will reshape our society, economy, and daily lives in ways we can hardly imagine today.

My mission with "When AI Grow Up" is to explore this transformation by speaking directly with the visionaries and builders shaping our AI-driven future. I'll dive deep into understanding what this means not just for us but, crucially, for our kids. I have three kids aged 13, 4 and 1. This is personal.

How can we prepare ourselves and our children to thrive in a world profoundly changed by AI? What tools, skills, and mindsets will we need?

Join me as we navigate the most significant shift of our lifetime together.

Exploring the future of AI on behalf of my three kids, aged 13, 4 and 1.

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