12/11/2025
“Three chapters. One lesson: when you do it all, you slowly lose it all — especially yourself.”
For years, I thought love meant carrying the load — emotionally, energetically, financially.
In every major relationship, I became the organiser, the fixer, the one who made sure everyone else felt safe, held, and seen.
On the surface, I looked strong.
Inside, I was running on empty.
That’s what over-functioning does — it tricks you into thinking control equals connection.
It wasn’t until the third time the pattern repeated — the same exhaustion, the same ache of not being met — that I finally asked why.
Why was I attracting men who needed saving?
Why was I the constant source of stability while craving to be cherished myself?
Through deep Kinesiology, quantum healing, and soul-work, I traced it back to a karmic imprint: a belief that I had to earn love through service, that my worth came from holding it all together.
Releasing that story was like removing a weight I didn’t know I was carrying.
The “debt” wasn’t to anyone else — it was to myself.
Now, I create from a completely different place:
from softness, pleasure, creativity, and grounded feminine power.
The women who find me are often right where I once was — high-achieving, heart-driven, and done with over-giving.
If that’s you, your body already knows it’s time.
Time to stop proving.
Time to start receiving.
I have space for a few 1:1 sessions this week for women ready to release the over-functioning pattern and return to their magnetic flow.
You don’t have to carry it all anymore. 💫
