Evolution of Intimacy

20/12/2025

And sadly in many families with heteros*xual partnerships, it is women doing all the work for Christmas in terms of cooking, present buying, organising- they are both 'slaying' and 'slaving' as they are amazing but unpaid and sometimes also quite unappreciated. Mums are amazing and it's so unfair of what is expected by society.
(Also a shout out to the Dads out there that contribute equally or take the weight.)

19/12/2025

Politicians should not interfere with healthcare- we have loads of empirical evidence and research that providing puberty blockers saves lives and outways any harms.

The Queensland Government has confirmed it will continue its ban on puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones for trans young people.

The Health Minister says the freeze will remain in place until the conclusion of a UK National Health Service trial — not expected to finish until 2031.

The decision follows an independent evidence review by former Victorian Chief Psychiatrist Professor Ruth Vine.

This is devastating news for the young people and families directly affected by this ban.

Politicians should not interfere in deeply personal medical decisions made by patients, families and qualified clinicians.

Trans young people deserve dignity, compassion and access to evidence-based healthcare — without political interference.

To trans young people in Queensland — you are not alone.

You deserve dignity, compassion and evidence-based healthcare, without politicians standing in the way.

19/12/2025

A reminder to be gentle to yourself amidst media filled with 'happy families' shown as middle class / heteros*xual / traditional.
From

18/12/2025

Shared from Society of Australian Sexologists “the Victorian Government took a historic step toward protecting the rights of children with innate variations of s*x characteristics, introducing legislation that will prevent unnecessary medical interventions without the individual’s free and informed consent.”
Read more here: https://interaction.org.au/.../victorian-government.../
Slide courtesy ofEquality Australiaia
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17/12/2025

You probably know Tisha Schull as the host of IFS Talks. In this wonderful episode, we had the joy of interviewing her. Tisha is a seasoned psychotherapist, clinical trainer, and IFS consultant with over a decade of experience specializing in complex trauma, anxiety disorders, and mind-body healing. She generously and tenderly shares a transformative experience of working with Cece Sykes on grief related to her siblings death through addiction. We also hear about a hilarious experience of being Self-Led after a minor car accident! Look up 'Parts Party' wherever you get your podcasts.

17/12/2025

Coming to terms with the end of a marriage is a painful realisation- but sometimes saying goodbye is freedom and relief. Yes - sometimes successful relationship counselling is coming to accept that you are not compatible and continuing is not for the best. From SHE On The Tip Of Her Tongue

16/12/2025

Oh the trap of scrolling and caffeine to feel better. Parts of us that distract and zone out can bring some soothing- but risk us getting stuck on the couch and feeling worse. From .a.creates

15/12/2025

If you are experiencing difficult emotions related to the horrific Bondi terror event, this is totally understandable. Lifeline have created a support guide below, reminding us:
"Even if you were not at Bondi Beach, you may still be strongly affected.
Seeing or hearing about distressing events through news, social media, or word of mouth can trigger fear, past experiences, or a sense that the world is unsafe. Many people also feel guilt for being upset when others were more directly impacted.
It’s important to know that you do not need to justify your distress. Emotional responses after violent events are valid, regardless of how close you were to what happened."

https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/support-toolkit/techniques-and-guides/bondi-beach-incident-wellbeing-support-guide?q=bondi-incident&fbclid=IwY2xjawOsRvFleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETEwYzVVdjZ5QXJEQ0hQbklmc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHqXrMiAbTSDUIEU4rMPJu3geeMELVbuR31SUYBFZtOjJ0tVzbYO2d709VPx-_aem_R20eJS_jpZcMpZ5LEX3OFw

Support and wellbeing guidance following the Bondi Beach incident on 14 December 2025. Understand common reactions and find ways to cope and get help.

15/12/2025

Sexual Violence may occur within the wider context of DV / Coercive Control, or may exist alone. Image is a variation of the Duluth Wheel. Reach out to your local DV or Sexual Assault service for free support if this is something you are concerned about. *xtherapist

13/12/2025

Many people exile their pain, not realising that is is leaking out anyway. It's never too late to heal your inner children. From

12/12/2025

Imagination is such a powerful healing agent. From LifeArchitect

11/12/2025

Important to review your boundaries at this time of year.